I've been told I have golden retriever energy going on but I definitely prefer to be holding the leash not wearing the collar.

Looking for someone who has an idea of what they do/dont want to try and can communicate it even if their voices are a little restricted at the time.

Have a decent idea of what I'm interested in but always looking for more fun things to try so don't be shy about sharing your best ideas, tasks, funishments, punishments, and favourite things to do or have done to you.

At some point I would really like to try learning Shibari but how will I find someone that'd want to spend an entire class getting tied up, any ideas?

I dont mind a brat, it can be quite fun and entertaining to find ways to bring out that "uh oh" reaction but it would need to be someone who knows how to recognise the line and only stick a foot over it so it's fun for both of us. I'm not here for people who think being generally unpleasant is bratting. be tricky to handle not impossible to stand.

if I've checked you out a couple times without a message it might be that the app/site thinks you're super darn popular and won't let me so don't be shy about sending me a message, I dont bite at least until we agree that's something you'd want.
voice notes are also very welcome.

outside of kink I'm a massive nerd. books, gaming, and messing about with my camera so if you want to pose for me just let me know.

dudes, dominant ladies, and couples while I appreciate the passing views and swipes that's not what I'm here for but I hope you find your person/people.

ageplay and dd/lg stuff, no issues with calling someone a good girl when they deserve it but that's about as far as that goes
***/poop
knives/weapons
illegal
not a sub or a switch so anyone messaging me with how to worship them or whatever is getting blocked, same thing for anyone pushing boundaries i've clearly said no to, i'm not just a kink dispenser.

probably more but we'll burn that bridge when we come to it