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Part of a polyamorous group with Ask me

Personal details

Gender Man
Age 67
Status Not single
Height 183cm
Weight 77kg
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Brown
Beard 5 o'clock shadow
Orientation Straight
Origin USA
Pubic Hair Shaved
Circumcised Yes
Zodiac sign Capricorn
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

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Description

First Friday of each month:

I have a New and Nervous Coffee Social.
Starbucks 5:30 PM - 8 PM
111 Eagleview Boulevard
Exrton, 19341 Pennsylvania

You don't have to be new or nervous. It's a non-kinky social for kinky people. When discussing kink/sex/bdsm/etc. keep it down.

Keep in mind there are non-kinky and underage customers who could be in ear shot of our group.

The idea is to get to know people more fully rather than be a pickup / kink exchange sort of event.


A way to meet people, make friends and network.

When you come into Starbucks ( it's a large Starbucks )
Look to the left. We meet at the large table. roses on the table(s). Usually 12 - 35 people and we always get new people.

A non-kinky social for kinky people.




Some BDSM socials (munches) are starting up. One in Phoenixville the 2nd Tuesday of each month and one in Willow Grove, the third Thursday of each month. One way to make friends and network.

If you are local and want to find out the events in the area please feel free to message me.

Desires and Fantasies
I don't have fantasies as much as plans.


We are fortunate to have a dungeon for impact play, wax, electrical, bondage, puppy play, etc.

My events

My places

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Downingtown with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

RaymondWise
icon-wio RaymondWise is going to the event Coffee/Social Exton, Pennsylvania
  • 25.03.2026 12:18:50
  • Male (67)
  • Downingtown
  • Not single
RaymondWise
icon-wio RaymondWise created an event
  • 18.03.2026 14:29:43
  • Munches 3 April 2026, 23:30 USA - Exton
A non-kinky event for kinky people.
First Friday of every month.
5:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Three roses at my table.
Enter and look to the left. The large table and surround area is ours.
If you find the idea of meeting at a social (munch)...
RaymondWise
icon-wio RaymondWise created an event
  • 18.03.2026 14:29:43
  • Munches 1 May 2026, 23:30 USA - Exton
A non-kinky event for kinky people.
First Friday of every month.
5:30 PM - 8:00 PM
Three roses at my table.
Enter and look to the left. The large table and surround area is ours.
If you find the idea of meeting at a social (munch)...
RaymondWise
icon-wio RaymondWise has updated their profile description
  • 18.03.2026 7:36:56
  • Male (67)
  • Downingtown
  • Not single
First Friday of each month:

I have a New and Nervous Coffee Social.
Starbucks 5:30 PM - 8 PM
111 Eagleview Boulevard
Exrton, 19341 Pennsylvania

You don't have to be new or nervous. It's a non-kinky social for kinky people. When discussing kink/sex/bdsm/etc. keep it down.

Keep in mind there are Read more… non-kinky and underage customers who could be in ear shot of our group.

The idea is to get to know people more fully rather than be a pickup / kink exchange sort of event.


A way to meet people, make friends and network.

When you come into Starbucks ( it's a large Starbucks )
Look to the left. We meet at the large table. roses on the table(s). Usually 12 - 35 people and we always get new people.

A non-kinky social for kinky people.





Some BDSM socials (munches) are starting up. One in Phoenixville the 2nd Tuesday of each month and one in Willow Grove, the third Thursday of each month. One way to make friends and network.

If you are local and want to find out the events in the area please feel free to message me.

Desires and Fantasies
I don't have fantasies as much as plans.


We are fortunate to have a dungeon for impact play, wax, electrical, bondage, puppy play, etc.
RaymondWise
icon-wio RaymondWise created an event
Starbucks now closes at 8PM I WILL LIKELY CHANGE the DAY AND TIME OF THIS EVENT. ATAY TUNED!
Starbuck now requires you buy something in order to stay. Just a cup of tea or coffee, anything they offer.
Fetish.com lists the time incorrectly. It'...
RaymondWise
icon-wio RaymondWise found their first icon!
  • 26.02.2026 7:21:34
  • Male (67)
  • Downingtown
  • Not single
RaymondWise
icon-wio RaymondWise wrote something in the forum
  • 24.02.2026 10:06:08
  • Male (67)
  • Downingtown
  • Not single
VALENTINE'S POWER PLAY TREASURE HUNT

I see #21 but it looks grey and when I click it doesn't add it to my icons. I've tried 2 different browsers

RaymondWise
icon-wio RaymondWise created an event
Fetish.com lists the time incorrectly. It's 6PM - 9PM
ll are welcome.
Starbuck now requires you buy something in order to stay. Just a cup of tea or coffee, anything they offer.
Fetish.com lists the time incorrectly. It's 6PM - 9PM
[I change...
RaymondWise
icon-wio RaymondWise found their first icon!
  • 26.01.2026 5:22:31
  • Male (67)
  • Downingtown
  • Not single
RaymondWise
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  • 26.01.2026 5:17:08
  • Male (67)
  • Downingtown
  • Not single
RaymondWise
icon-wio RaymondWise created an event
  • 03.01.2026 1:00:36
  • Munches 1 May 2026, 23:00 USA - Exton
Starbucks now closes at 8PM I WILL LIKELY CHANGE the DAY AND TIME OF THIS EVENT. ATAY TUNED!
Starbuck now requires you buy something in order to stay. Just a cup of tea or coffee, anything they offer.
Fetish.com lists the time incorrectly. It'...
RaymondWise
icon-wio RaymondWise created an event
Starbucks now closes at 8PM I WILL LIKELY CHANGE the DAY AND TIME OF THIS EVENT. ATAY TUNED!
Starbuck now requires you buy something in order to stay. Just a cup of tea or coffee, anything they offer.
Fetish.com lists the time incorrectly. It'...
RaymondWise
icon-wio RaymondWise wrote something in the forum
  • 27.11.2025 7:31:29
  • Male (67)
  • Downingtown
  • Not single
Domestic Servitude (Non-Sexual)

Many of my non sexual domestic service partners engage in this in a transactional manner.
They want to play with me, perhaps they've seen me flog/cane/fire play and such at local clubs and parties. I offer to do that is they do some hours of cleaning or other domestic chores.
Sometimes they want to Read more… experience submission to me without sex. It often still is the transactional domestic chore route.
Many into BDSM/kink do not combine sex and kink. At a lot of play parties sex isn't allowed. In many cases, even when it's allowed, hardly anyone does it.
I do combine sex and kink but with some partners it's non-sexual. I don't think I could take on another sexual partner in my chosen family.
I was at a New Years Eve kink party and at midnight, the organizer announced that sex was now allowed. This was NOT in the promotional description of the party.
My slave and I started having sex but I'd say two thirds of the crowd left at that point.
non-sexual kink if definitely a thing.

RaymondWise
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  • 25.11.2025 10:38:39
  • Male (67)
  • Downingtown
  • Not single
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  • 21.10.2025 16:27:45
  • Male (67)
  • Downingtown
  • Not single

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