Back in the dating game, looking for female friends who can help me explore my kinky side sometimes. Much more to me than just that and I'm not looking for a quick fix. Happy to date vanilla style with the occasional kinky spice added. I've got a great sense of humour, kind and caring and I'm not a d**k head! If you fancy a chat I'm a great listener or maybe a meetup somewhere popular. I do drink but don't smoke (but I don't mind if you do). Switch with a firm hand or sub side. In the vanilla world I like walks, rock music (new and old), travel, nights out or nights in, cooking.

serious harm, death, that kinda stuff!