About me
A little about myself:
I'm a 22 year old (almost 23) male from Belgium.
Looks wise I'm 1.9m or 6 foot 3 and on the skinny fit side. I'm working on changing that though by going to the gym.
I have green eyes and short brown hair. I'm also pretty pale since I can not tan to safe my life. It's burn or nothing for me lol.
Personality wise I'm someone very shy and definitely need some time to open up to people, but once I do I can talk your ears of about stuff I like. I'm definitely a nerdy/golden retriever type person and pride myself in my kindness and care for others.
On the kinky side I would call myself a service sub. I love nothing more than making my partner happy and taking care of them just as much if not more than they take care of me.
If I were to describe my social battery it would probably be a trippel a battery, so not having a lot of energy to talk is definitely something that happens, but it's more prevelant irl than online.
Some of my biggest interests and hobbies are:
• Cars: I love all things cars be it taking relaxing drives just listening to music, karting, racing simulator games, ... I currently drive a BMW e34 oldtimer and I love it.
• The gym: I try my best to go to the gym consistently (emphasis on try) and i mostly do it with friends but I'm gonna start going on my own so i can be more consistent. I also want to get into rockclimbing to combine with the gym in the future.
• Technology: If you let me i could probably talk your ears of about the newest technology, be it phones, cars, pc's, ...
• Gaming: This is one of my favorite things to do in my free time and I'd love to be able to play together if it's also an interest of yours. I play many types of games including overwatch, the witcher, destiny,...
• Music: I listen mostly to rock but just like with games I'm someone who doesn't really have 1 specific genre i like, so I'd love to listen to music together.
• Watching shows: Just like games and music I watch almost anything. Currently some shows I've watched are Wednesday, gen v, peacemaker, the sandman, ...
• Nature: I love walking and being in nature, taking pictures, watching ***s,... I don't do it that much since Belgium isn't really the best place for it (except if you like flat grass fields as far as the eye can see)
I've just finished my bachelors in automotive managment and just started my masters in business science which will be another 2 years. So I definitely won't always have all day to hang out but I would make sure I atleast have some time for my domme/partner every day to do something outside of just texting.
What is also important for me is that school always comes first since I'd want to make sure I can spoil my partner as much as possible.
Some more random facts about me:
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Kinks and other stuff I like:
I will definitely be forgetting to mention everything I like in here but the ones I do mention are definitely the biggest ones.
It's also important to know that I can develop new kinks over time based on what my domme likes, so definitely don't be afraid to share all your kinks with me! I may not like some of them in the beginning but that could very well change after some time.
Outside of kink I'd also love if we could do stuff together like (video) calling, playing games together, watching shows together, sleepcalling, and just doing things either of us enjoy together.
• Chastity: In march I finally bought my first cage and omg was it a life changer. I love being locked so much and I spend as much time as possible locked. I started with a pretty big cage but I've already downsized twice and now I have a practically flat cage. Incase it wasn't clear this is a very very big must lol.
• Orgasm control: Edging, teasing, denial, joi, ***d orgasms, ruined orgasms, over stimulation,... Whatever it is if you control it I will love it.
• Premature: I know this one might not be for everyone but I absolutely love the idea of not being able to last because I'm so attracted to my partner. The idea of having to use a strap-on and dildo or my mouth to satisfy a partner because my own dick can't do it is also something that turns me on so much. In the past I've been able to cum in my cage from pretty much no stimulation except looking at pictures.
• Using toys: So far I have a few toys including a lovense edge 2, hush 2, diamo, and gush 2. Besides these I also have 19 cm long dildo and a strap-on harnass. I love using the lovense toys as ways for you to use me not only while in session, but also while I do other stuff like playing games (with friends) and just getting distracted by you controlling them from a distance while I do whatever.
• Tasks, rules and obedience training: This is also one of my favorites. I just love having rules to obey. It can go from just taking a pic of my food so you know I'm eating, or a pic of my outfit every morning to having to sleep on the floor or hump the air and send the video every morning. I also love being your personal reminders. Do you forget to eat sometimes? I'll make sure that you never forget again!
• (Body) worship: The more I like someone the prettier I start finding them and I absolutely LOVE making sure they know it by giving compliments (maybe too often sometimes, sorry not sorry). Besides words I also just like worshipping someone physically, yes I'll get on my knees and stay there as long as I possibly can and more while having a picture of you infront of me.
Worship eevry part of you
Not only sexual
• 24/7, total power exchange: For me a femdom dynamic wouldn't only happen in the bedroom. I'd want it to be a permanent part of our life and always be present in some way.
• (Censored) Pictures: This is definitely not one that has to happen from the start since I totally understand wanting to wait before sending pictures (I'm the same). But I absolutely love sharing pictures with each other. These don't only have to be pictures of ourselves but can also just be random stuff you saw troughout the day and wanted to share like a cute ***. But when talking about pictures of you then I also love censored pictures. Don't ask me why because I don't know but I just find it so hot. It just makes me want to be an even better sub and partner in the hope of deserving an uncensored picture.
• Praise: This one is pretty easy. I just like being told I'm doing a good job, be it at being a sub, partner or just working for school, ...
• Light feminisation: This ranges from simply being called a good girl, to acting as if I'm a girl while you're using me to wearing female clothes in private.
• Anal play: I don't have a lot of experience with it and besides using the lovense toys I have it's definitely not something I'd want to do like every day for now. But I do really want to experience it more. My end goal like for most subs most likely is having a prostate orgasm.
• Hypno: I really like listening to hypno in the hopes of developing triggers which could be used against me. If you can do hypno yourself it would be a huge bonus, but just making me listen to other people's content is more than great enough for me. If it's not something that you're interested in that's also okay, this one is not too important for me.
• Body writing: I really like just writing whatever you want on myself and if it's not visible with clothes on, even leaving it on while being in public.
• Nicknames: I don't really have any specific nicknames I like to be called. You can call me anything from baby, sweety, good boy, good girl, slut, toy, worm, ...
• ***, ***, objectification, sph: I like these from time to time to put me in my place an to put me in a more submissive mood but I'm definitely not into mean femdom where these are used very often.
• Needing permission: I love having to ask permission to do something, i don't really have any examples besides for example having to ask to touch myself but this doesn't only have to be sexual.
• Aftercare: I have trouble showing it sometimes but I'm a very sensitive person and I can easily overthink things so definitely after a session with more *** and *** I need aftercare.
• Punishments: a little counter intuitive i know lol but if i ever do something to deserve a punishment, then its peobably just because i was forgetfull or an idiot. So i would always happilly complete my punishments to make up for that
Cnc, Begging, Free use, ...: These speak for themselves I think after reading why I love the rest but I'm an open book if you'd like to learn more about my kinks
I'm 100% gonna forget some but I'll mention the most important ones. Some of these might be flexible if it's something you really like and once I trust you.
• Heavy ***: I don't mind scratching myself, punching or slapping myself from time to time if it's something you like but i wouldn't want it to be a big part of the dynamic.
• *** and ***: This one is not flexible.
• Knifeplay: Also not flexible.
• Visible public: With this I don't mean stuff like wearing a cage, plug or body writing in public. I mean wearing girly clothes, clearly visible bodywriting or exhibitionism.
• Blackmail: I want someone with who I can create a safe and comfortable environment for both of us, so blackmail is a really big no no for me.