I spent a week away eith my FWB couple and I took the cross I made for them. I intended my design to be able to be opened and locked together in under two minutes and it exceeded my own specification. To put it up took 40 seconds. To take it down took 40 seconds! I am very happy with the result! Read more… This does not include any unpacking, fixing to a wall etc (we used a door for securing it to and it was stable).
Very happy with the result.

Well, a quick update : i enjoyed sensual play with the lady, and our relationship has blossomed. I am now a FWB to her, and with her husband, we have some nice sessions.
On the restraints front, we have done this on a number of occasions, but unfortunately we didn't get to play on a cross as it Read more… had been taken from the club the week before we were going to use it. However, being an inventive kind of guy, I promised I would make them a cross. I have stuck to my word, and last week I finished it. We haven't tested it yet but hope to next week as I am spending some time away with them. The cross is a folding version, so it will be interesting to see how it goes.
Wish me luck.
Rivers

Well this has taken a step further. I have been sharing sexy stories with the lady I meet with at the club. In one of the stories in which we indulge ourselves. I cant put what it is as I think the AI picked ut up!. One of her rolls is product evaluation and on her 2nd day I blindfold her and we Read more… use the St Andrews cross and engage in sensual play. She enjoyed the story and now would like to act it out at the club.
So now I am in the position of putting a story into practice and I am a little apprehensive as I really want to make her feel fantastic. With this in mind, would anyone be willing to read my story and evaluate what works in a story but not so much in practice as I don’t want to be a fumbling mess when it comes to real life.
My many thanks.
Rivers

Thank you all for your kindness giving me your time and sharing your experience. I was hoping I may get a response but never expected so many.
I have never used restraints before so I will tread lightly with this. I need her to feel 110% safe 100% of the time but, I feel she has understood my Read more… personality and knows I would not do anything to hurt, humiliate or make her feel uncomfortable – but still I will move cautiously.
Thankfully I have a very light touch and love to touch so I am happy doing this for a long time. I vary the touch and the number of fingers I use and always try to make any movement flow, then as one stops subtly introduce another.
I like the thought of introducing scent, but this isn’t the easiest as we are in a club. The same goes with music but I may be able to do something with a wireless machine of some kind. I also try to keep the audible side alive by whispering or softly saying how beautiful and desirable she is, and by complimenting parts of her body.
The suggestions of silk, feathers, ice etc all sound interesting so I will have to put some things together. I also have a very basic blindfold (the type you get on long flights) do I will get that out too.
Thanks again for all your help.
R