Its something i would love to try

Yes it's exactly the same for me.. I am not a masochist.. Its the control and submission that is the turn on for me rather tjan the actual action of inflicting pain

Can you not just ask for permission every time? I would very rarely tell my sub no when whe asked unless there was a very good reason why she shouldn't

"when i was a child, i spoke as a child, i understood as a child, i thought as a child: but when i became a man, i put away childish things."
I create and solve my own puzzles.

For me the dynamic does not start until you both agree it does. Until then its simply a conversation. No power exchange or protocol requirements.. Just a mutually respectful conversation about what you both want, need, expect and desire.

I love the idea of spitting on my girl but she is not into it at all.. She doesn't mind me spitting on her pussy and arse but that's it.. If I was in your place I would be making her gag on my fingers and cock and using the spit when she gags to rub all over her face, then spit on her face myself Read more… and rub that in.. Face fucking her and pausing to spit in her mouth then carrying on does it for me to.. Ooooft!.. Hope you have fun.. I'm jealous mate haha!

Yes I think that's pretty much it.. Her feedback was that I was too polite and she couldn't feel enough aggression from me in my dominance BDSM wise. So I think I need stop worrying about taking it too far and just push the limits of what my head is telling me is acceptable and let her stop me with Read more… her safeword if I take the verbal dominance too far.

Thanks for the advice.. Yes I have been tempted to message a few potential partners but wasn't too sure about the best way to approach it. So do you think it's better idea to make my initial approach a completely vanilla introduction and wait to introduce the power exchange aspect until we have got Read more… to know each other a little and made sure we get along?

Hi all I'm new here.. I have quite recently broke from my first 24/7 sub/dom relationship.. It was my introduction to the Bdsm lifestyle but I learned so much during the relationship and now am looking for a new sub. I thought this site may be a good place to start any advice on meeting a new Read more… sub/slave would be greatly appreciated.