Clearly a lie. Block.

It's not sacrifice, it's compromise. An integral part of all functional relationships.

First of all, I am very sorry for what happened to you. The element of trust is paramount to any healthy kinky relationship.
Keep in mind that we meet abusers of our trust every day, in almost every aspect of our life, and definitely within vanilla relationships as well. Take the time you need to Read more… recover and reflect, and remember you are stronger than you feel at the moment.

Exactly what I thought 💯

Totally agree.

He probably has!

Oh dear, I laughed so much with this! Thanks for sharing. May I add Mr Needy and Mr SadStory on the list? 😉

Totally agree 👍 I would add that you shouldn't feel pressurised to try things you are not interested in or comfortable with. If you don't like kink /BDSM, you shouldn't be forced to the lifestyle just because your partner does. I appreciate you have feelings but if he cared about you the way you Read more… care about him, he wouldn't have put you in this position.

Don't you get it? She doesn't want to hear from you. Why would you keep thinking of ways to contact her? She has the right to cut all ties and you should respect her decision and move on.

If you are doing it to seek gratification and feel well and satisfied, then it is probably an expression of your sensuality. However if you are having negative feelings about yourself and low self esteem, it could be self harming behaviour. Perhaps you could try speaking with a doctor and get Read more… professional advice. Be safe x