I’m a curious, grounded person who values clear communication, mutual respect, and ongoing consent. I enjoy both the mental and physical sides of power exchange and am open to exploring dynamics that feel genuine rather than performative. Looking for people who know themselves well enough to state their desires and limits upfront. Ideal connections involve honest conversation first, followed by scenes or ongoing dynamics that are negotiated, enthusiastic, and safe. Chemistry, trust, and aftercare matter more to me than labels or intensity for intensity’s sake.

Hard limits
• Anything involving permanent marks, ***, or permanent body modification without explicit prior discussion
• Non consensual play, stealth, or surprise scenes
• ***, watersports, and anything involving bodily waste
• Play involving minors or anyone unable to give informed consent
• Public exposure that risks real-world consequences without full agreement
• *** / ***
• Anything that involves real harm, illegal activity, or pressure after a clear “no”
Soft limits (negotiable with trust and clear negotiation)
• Sensory deprivation for extended periods
• Edge play involving breath or temperature (only with experienced partners and clear safewords)
I use the traffic light system and expect the same in return. Limits can be revisited as trust builds, but hard limits stay hard