About me
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So here goes
First and foremost thanks for stopping by
I'm 49 year old , happily married.... before judging ask !
Fun loving Irish girl ( described as SSBBW by many ..size 26 big girl with pretty eyes and thick thighs
Please google ssbbw if you are unsure what that means
Love chatting craic and banter , I'm probably tad cheeky n sarky be warned
I'm a old school submissive and been kicking a round the lifestyle pre internet explosion
Im not a Domme nor am I a door mat.!! I don’t suffer fools
I don’t want to be anyones mommy
Please don’t be offended if you are below 39 and I say I can’t go younger this doesn’t make be ageist
I'm fun and outgoing., Straight gal with bi curiosities
I'm intrigued by the whole lifestyle and love to have good lifestyle chat , debate or exchange of views
Anything I've missed I'm sure there loads feel free to ask! I don't bite (unless asked)
Feel free to contact me but be respectful and polite at all and please do not send dic pics
tines
Sx
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That’s what I have said to him
take his time and educate himself
read talk to others about their experiences and Take time to try to understand what Ds is
Thank you for sharing
thanks for wonderful thank you for help
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This is my concern
I don’t know the chap at all
He just popped into my in box
I’m not sure he understands the reality of what is actually possible or expected
The gentleman hasn’t any idea of what a Ds dynamic could actual look like
He’s no idea what could be involved or should be involved
Thanks for taking the time to reply
Sound advice
I’m popping up a post as I have recently had a conversation with an older gentleman late 40s . He wants to explore a Ds dynamic with a Domme
He has no experience of the lifestyle and he is unsure how and where to start
As we know each dynamic is vey individual
However this Read more…gentleman would like some advice and guidance around what might be expected within a Ds dynamic with a Domme
If you are happy to share your experiences with him it would be appreciated
Equally any advice or guidance for him where to begin or any specific reading materials would be helpful
Thank you to all who have taken the time to respond , it always appreciated
It is great to have the space to discuss openly even if it is just to raise awareness of possibilities
First and foremost thanks for stopping by
I'm 49 year old , happily married.... before judging ask !
Fun loving Irish girl ( described as SSBBW by many ..size 26 big girl with pretty eyes and thick thighs
Please google ssbbw if you are unsure what that means
Love chatting craic Read more… and banter , I'm probably tad cheeky n sarky be warned
I'm a old school submissive and been kicking a round the lifestyle pre internet explosion
Im not a Domme nor am I a door mat.!! I don’t suffer fools
I don’t want to be anyones mommy
Please don’t be offended if you are below 39 and I say I can’t go younger this doesn’t make be ageist
I'm fun and outgoing., Straight gal with bi curiosities
I'm intrigued by the whole lifestyle and love to have good lifestyle chat , debate or exchange of views
Anything I've missed I'm sure there loads feel free to ask! I don't bite (unless asked)
Feel free to contact me but be respectful and polite at all and please do not send dic pics
tines
Sx
I understand as a community we have grown and developed and on a whole far more open than previous decades which is a positive
However I have seen a trend recently where new people Read more…entering the lifestyle both young and old … make open announcements in forums and statements on their status about how vulnerable or scared or how much they are anxious about exploring the community and lifestyle
My question is to everyone is what’s your thoughts about the pro and cons of doing this taking into account currently there are many fakes and those who like to prey on both sides of the coin
Is this dangerous ?
Are people leaving themselves at risk ?
Sx
On a whole and in general I find vulnerability very sexy in the opposite sex but there is a time and place for it .
the important thing here is context
is she happy? is she being coerced into doing things she doesn't enjoy? If yes and no Read more… - then there's not necessarily an issue
Does she communicate her wants and desires? Does she know she can? Does she know she never loses the word 'no' ? Does she enjoy the levels she is playing to or thinks this is the only way?
It is great to have the space to discuss openly even if it is just to raise awareness of possibilities Thank you to all who have taken the time to respond , it always appreciated
It is great to have the space to discuss openly even if it is just to raise awareness of possibilities
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Agree with pretty much all others have said - to be honest if he's not sure what he's looking for or wants, then that's the first thing to address - especially as a male submissive in an environment awash with us, any Domme worth their salt Read more… (i.e. not a scammer) will expect a coherent conversation that shows at least a level of knowledge and understanding both of the lifestyle and also a submissives desires - if he's unable to articulate even those then he's likely to remain frustrated
That’s what I have said to him
take his time and educate himself
read talk to others about their experiences and Take time to try to understand what Ds is