Hey! I’m new here but not new to being kinky. I’m here to connect with people for friendship, to share knowledge, or play if someone very local shares values and kinks (Update: I don’t currently feel like I’m in a position to meet in person)…

I’m an artist. I also love movies and food. I only started my kink journey 4-5 years ago and it’s been a slow but steady burn since- experimenting, gaining knowledge and learning what I like and who I am. I understand consent, communication, safety and the techniques for the play that I like - but I don’t claim to know everything about everything and I’m always willing to learn more.

The thing I enjoy most is giving/leading/controlling someone in a fantastic shared BDSM experience. Sensual bondage is my favourite kink play: I like the contrast between soft and hard, rough and gentle that sensual bondage can facilitate.

(Things I don’t enjoy/do:
Really bratty Brats, spit play, extreme *** play, medical play, breath play.)

Small disclaimer: I have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, so anything in-person will need to accommodate/work around this.

Desires and Fantasies
I’ve been fantasising recently about pet play… cat/kitty/kitten to be specific. My pet wearing a Black body harness or lingerie, a beautiful black collar and leash, topped off with a black leather cat mask… so sexy. As for what we get up to, well… some things remain secrets.