I am a submissive male, searching for a dominant Lady to serve and please in the San Antonio area. I'm not the so'-called "alpha male" on the outside - more of the quietly determined get-it-done type, but Mistress gets to see all of my sub/slut side. I have enjoyed and appreciated emotional connections with the previous Mistresses I have served, and hope for that again. It is literally almost a physical ache, sometimes. I look for a spark or "zing" at first, and as time passes and familiarity and trust grow, the connection deepens. I always offer ears to bend and waterproof shoulders if Mistress is upset about something. I am happy to be of service if Mistress needs someone to bounce thoughts/ideas off of or if I know something about how/where/who to get something or get something done. I'm a reasonably handy person, as well.

I've been in previous D/s relationships, so I'm not a novice. At the same time, I realize that the Mistress/Domme who accepts me will naturally want to train me Her way. I do have limits, but I hope and think that I have a fairly good range of "interests". Depending on the activity, I'm definitely open to trying things not currently on my interest list. The interests/activities are so granular now in many cases - so look at the higher-level, broader interest categories and that will likely tell you how I feel about the more granular ones. I admit to leaning towards sexual/sensual domination with a bit of fetish thrown in, but I'm willing to do activities I don't actively enjoy as well and long as I can for Mistress' pleasure. I guess these might considered "soft limits" - I don't put conditions on those "soft limits" other than safe-word respect. I am willing to experience discomfort/***, ***, etc to my limits and see my limits tested and maybe stretched a bit for Mistress's amusement. Erotic/Sensual ***, of course, is a lot easier to take and I am open it having my limits tested in that regard for the amusement of Mistress.

I hope to find a long-lasting D/s relationship. I believe the long-term aspect is so important for building the trust and understanding that makes a D/s relationship so intense! When I am in service to my Mistress/Domme, I am loyal and proud to be Her sub! I hope to find my Domme/Mistress and serve Her in submission!

Male/Male contact including another's creampie, ***, ***, piercing/scarring or other body mods, fire, lasting marks, shy towards *** but can take some for Mistress (definitely a soft limit, but open to exploring erotic ***), most edge play, *** play