Open minded kinky guy with over 20 years experience in the kinky community, especially as a dom. I have done and tried a lot of different kinky things but always open to trying new stuff except toilet stuff. I have a good career, stable life, no kids (dont mind if you do) and I also am not the judgemental type so you can be fully honest and open with me about who you are, your past, what you are into, looking for and so on.

I am primarily looking for an attractive open minded kinky woman for something long term but ok if just fwb or poly in the right situations. I have more experience as a Dom but open to switching or a sub for the right woman. I am all about respect, trust and communication. I like to push my partner to new boundaries and experiences if they are interested but will always respect limits and safe words.

I really enjoy hearing what people's taboo kinks/fantasies are, especially if they are ones that may be to taboo or dark to share online. You never have to worry about me judging you or snitching. All secrets are safe with me. So if you have any, go ahead and private message me to share.

I am into bondage, sub/dom play and relationships, 24/7 lifestyle, leather, latex, role playing, rigging, training, slut training/transformation, mfm, mff, making videos, doing sexy photoshoots, cuddling, kissing, spoiling, and more

My biggest kinky/turn on is having my partner being dressed really sexy and wearing sky high heels or boots (especially thigh high boots). Especially leather and latex clothes. The more often, the better. Love to show off my partner when out together so some one who is shy or conservative with how she dresses in public won't work with me. Not requiring you to dress slutty when out if you aren't willing to, but at least dressing with some sex appeal and willing to wear heels sometimes if we are in a relationship.

Of course if we are just fwb, I would just require it during our play time if I am the Dom.

A woman who is not shy/embarrassed to dress slutty and wear tall heels often while out in public even if its just to go shopping, run errands, go to movies, events, or anything and not worry about what others think (unless you enjoy it because its degrading) and with confidence. is one of the hottest things ever to me. Especially when it's my partner. That is the best eye candy.

I am also open to passable trans females too for the same and young petite cute submissive femboys who are willing to dress sexy and wear tall heels in public

*** and vomit is my only hard limit
soft limits that are only reserved for serious long term relationships is anything permanent, modification, extreme /.