Sub looking for a Dom. Not looking for a hookup. My life is busy and my work is demanding(mentally and emotionally). I know what I want in my life/future and I want someone who can show up completely, handle my attitude and be ready for an occasional challenge. I will be a challenge sooner or later. Hopefully it will be fun, in the end. I have some wildly odd hobbies, slightly alt lifestyle (not referencing this lifestyle) and quite frankly a strong personality that is both soft, fire, and everything in between.