I have always been dominant, but I am definitely on the careing side of Dom... Not cruel or vindictive. I desire femininity in my subs. I need my sub to ache to give themselves to me... to be completely mine, and no others. I give pleasure more than I require it for myself. Play often is not about sex, far more about pleasure. I love to play with my sub when she is bound and *** before me... *** and open to my charms...
I need to have an equal. Someone who enjoys conversation as well as play, but whom I can take what I need from, when I need it...wherever that may be.
My Kinks are simple. Ropes and restraints are the usual tools I employ. I have a deep fetish for shoes and they will always be at the hub of play and everything else! I use toys to great effect and will absolutely have a sub writhing in pleasure long past when the pleading to stop has gone quiet... I am a firm believer in aftercare and will always help with subspace requirements.

Having said all that, I am not necessarily simply looking only for a sub. Equality and understanding is paramount for me. A Dom is not superior to a sub, indeed without a sub a Dom is powerless. In my opinion a sub weilds great power over a Dom, which must be earned.

Other than that, I am smart, well read, am completely fashion un-conscious, into 80s music, Bowie fan and a sad old Goth at hart!
I'm honest, often in trouble because of that!
If you have any questions, please ask.

No poop.
No cruelty.
No extreme play... but I might push a boundary consensually.
Nothing illegal.