I am more into mental domination and mind games, rather than physical.

I am seeking for a submissive woman within my age range for a long term relationship or regular meetings. I value intelligence, discretion, devotion and self confidence.

I am rather introvert and I would like to keep private my BDSM inclination. Sharing a secret can be a sexy, strong bond between parteners, somehow underestimated by modern life.

I believe in a partenership between two grown-up, independent persons with clear terms for play and outside life. The submissive partner is equally important, so it should never be manipulated or compelled to do something against her will. On the contrary, the bravery of the passive partner should be admired and praised. It is not at all easy to acknowledge in a ever competing society to have a bottom preference. Mutual respect, plain communication and strict abidance to each others boundries shall guide the parteners. Meetings depedening on the professional schedule of each one, no life should be turned upside down.

As for strong points I could mention my ability to remain calm in stressful situations, seeking to find solutions, not to assign blame. I am also good listener and kindhearted.

On the other hand, especially at the begining, I might appear cold and distant, but it is just a defence strategy. Every now and then, I just feel the need to be left alone, some hours or a day will be enough. Ocassionaly, I am moody, but not in a mean way and not for a long time. I am not very comfortable in the larger social environment, I prefer the company of well-known people.

I am fan of opera, classical music and cinema. I am fond of port cities, marine landscape, Turkish bath, pomegranates, the smell of lavander, coconut and cloves, the books of Javier Marías.

I am turned off by lack of hygiene, honesty, loyalty or discretion. I equally averse to extreme/radical political or social views.

Any illegal, unsafe or unconsented activity. Moreover, as a rule, any extreme practice involving things like ***, needles, long lasting marks and so forth. I am definitely not for the hard stuff.