What to say about me.. well im a broadly dominant guy (more on that later) ive been in and out different kinky relationships but have been single a while but very much looking to meet new people for whatever happens really! Chat and making some new friends is good, meets/play is great too, potentially a relationship and something permanent if things go well with someone whos looking for that too but for now, very much open to anything within reason! I know thats a little vague but I always try to be on the positive side of things when I can...

So vanilla me, im an avid reader, occasional gamer (both computer and tabletop), I kayak often and walk in the hills near where I live a lot. A change in work means i have far more free time so im looking for a new sport or hobby to take up.. No idea what yet but it will happen in time! Work is a mixed bag that takes me all over Scotland and in to northern England, the hours can be a bit funky but the travel is fun!

Kink wise im into a fairly mixed bag of things.. im very big on like tie and tease (or ***), sensation play, gags, spanking etc. Also very big on different bondage, orgasm control and edging and some more intense things like hoods, gasmasks and breath play but NONE of those are mandatory or a must at all.. If its not your thing, thats fine im totally happy for them to be totally off the table permanently when discussing ideas etc

I do definitely have something of a kink for rubber and latex for sure which is pretty deep so would love to meet someone with a similar interest or at least curious about it and willing to try. I do have a fairly large and growing toy collection including a nice set of leather cuffs, clamps, a bunch of gags, estim unit, hoods and gasmasks a doxy wand and harness to name a few and a decent budget for plenty more to suit any situation or things someone might like to try.. or items that catch my fancy. As with everything, if its not your thing, just say and thats fine.. if you are curious about something im more than happy to try and let you try and see if its your thing or not..

No idea what else to say about me really so i guess if you want a chat, please say hi!

Simon

Now, back to being broadly dominant... Some fairly recent experiences have led me to question just how dominant I am which im looking to explore a little.. Mostly looking to do some things along the lines of edging and ruined orgasms/overstimulation with someone dommey.. maybe a bit more, not sure yet myself but ill figure it out in time with the right person/people. Similar thing to be said in that ive found im maybe slightly bi curious but no idea beyond "a bit" and it being something im open to explore

Well need i say the usual cluster of things that are just no for basically everyone not chasing a prison sentence?

Beyond those im really not a fan of anything involving *** or shit play, open maybe to needles is someone is really into them and im ok with butt plugs and similar but not like just taking a dump on someone or vice versa.. and likewise not massively big on *** play but open to it in a few situations..

Im also really NOT into like very heavy play where there are clear risks of someone suffering serious damage like serious beatings and the likes.. Someone being bratty and a serious spanking is very much ok though

Its not a limit buthere seems a good place to mention it.. im not big on formality and titles unless someone really wants to use them