Hi there, and thank you for taking the time to read this. My name is SimonTheCat, but you can just call me Simon. :3 I created this account several years ago, but I only became active again recently. I'm primarily looking for friends and roleplay partners to express my kinks with online, but I'm also open to meeting up with people local to me. If you just want to chat regularly or engage in vanilla cybersex I'm open to that as well.

About Me:

General: I am a 28 year old white male from the Southeastern United States. I am bisexual, friendly to trans and nonbinary, and am polyamorous. I'm perfectly content being male, but I consider myself gender fluid and I'm very in touch in with my feminine side, to the point where I want to try cross-dressing some day. My personality type is INFP and my favorite color is a deep light blue. I live on my own with my two cats who are my babies. I play video games casually - my favorite genres are RPGs and visual novels, primarily for their storytelling elements. I also write erotic fiction as a hobby, although I may very well keel over and die before I complete anything substantial. Finally I LOVE to cuddle. ^^

D/s: I have played both roles, but being a sub comes much more naturally to me. I can switch easily enough online, but if we end up playing irl I will almost certainly be submissive, especially with other males. If I am playing as a dom, expect me to be gentle and patient. Also, I've never actually done BDSM irl before, so if we do get together somehow and you have experience, try to keep this in mind.

What I seek:

As a sub - What I like is a little hard to describe, but the best way that I can think of put it is that I wish to be gently but thoroughly dominated. I want to be thought of as an expensive toy that you love to play with but that you're also careful not to break. I am also very eager to please and love giving pleasure to my partners or even just making them happy in general. I thrive on praise, affection, and gentle guidance and am never bratty.

As a dom - The old adage of 'do unto others as you would have them do onto you' feels applicable here. I try to treat my subs in a similar manner to how I would want to be treated were I in their shoes. As a consequence, I only really know how to top naturally soft and submissive people. If you're a brat or into harsh treatment, then it's not going to work between us.

Kinks: As you might have guessed from my name and profile pic, I am a kitten, and my favorite kink is pet play, playing either role. :3 My username, Simon, is the name of my submissive persona and I have a much easier time roleplaying as him. I can play a different character if that's what you really want, but I can't guarantee I'll perform nearly as well. I am also quite partial to Big/little play and age regression, both with and without pet play mixed in (although the younger the age, the softer the scene will have to be). I can do Master/Slave as well, so long as the slave in question is not treated too harshly.

Moving on from roles, my favorite kinks and fetishes are bondage, light humiiation, free use, sub sharing, voyeurism (both willing and f*d), exhibitionism (both willing and f**d), gentle cnc, and gangbangs. A full list of my likes and dislikes can be found on my kinks list posted in my images.

I'm also perfectly content with vanilla sex once in a while. :)

Soft:

• Spanking: As a sub I understand that I will need correction from time to time, but I will do everything in my power to not need it. As a dom I will be very reluctant to do it. In both cases I would much rather come up with other corrective methods if possible.

• Name calling: I love being spoken to in a condescending or demeaning way, so long as it has a lighthearted essence to it, but some names just hurt. Please run any names or titles by me ahead of time and I'll tell you how I feel about them.

Hard:

• S & M in general: P*in and sex do not mix for me AT ALL. I don't care what side of it I'm on. I want nothing to do with it.

• Bood, sct, vomit, diapers: Not my cup of tea, sorry. Watersports and cum are fine.

• $$$$$. This includes both *** and Sugar Daddies/Mommies. And not just because it's not allowed here. Sex and intimacy are how I bond with people, and I have exactly zero interest in sullying that by turning it into a financial transaction.

These are the major ones. The rest can be found in the kinks list found in my photos.