Hi everyone! Thank you for taking the time to read this :)

Ik spreek Nederlands en Engels! Ik hou van gesprekken met inhoud 🧐

I am 25, have a boyfriend and a cat, and I’m a switch. Obviously, my boyfriend knows and consents to that I am on here.

I’m always open for queer/neurodivergent friends 😊 friendship for me implies that nothing sexual will ever happen. Oh, and women are always welcome. Because, you know, women. ✨

What I am looking for:

• Preferably someone who is older (someone my age is fine as well, but i am not interested in someone younger than me)
• Someone who is okay with me not being monogamous
• I am not into impact play. I need someone to dominate me without me having to sit still like an object.
• On that previous point, mental play is very important to me: mindgames, teases, figuring out what pushes my buttons and using that!
• On thát previous point, creating a space that feels save enough for me (and you) to do all the thigs I'm describing
• Someone who is okay with me being a switch, so that I am not 100% submissive. You might need to put in some effort! I do not have interest in switching, as I am dominant with my boyfriend. I am purely looking for someone who can really pull the submissive side out of me.
• Someone who is into play fighting and loves to handle brats. I said I don’t like impact play, but I am okay with getting “hurt” during play fighting, for example. It shouldn’t just not be the main purpose.
• Someone who is open to chat just to get to know each other without owing each other anything. No expectations, connections only. :) If I do not want to meet up, please do not be pushy. I need time & the feeling of safety
• Much more, probably. I like humor, intellect and good hygiene.

About me:

• Curvy/chubby/not skinny. And not short (around 1,78 meter). I do not have - a flat stomach. Not into that? Please don’t message me
• I love playfighting (and being conquered), bratting, being put in my place. And a lot more that excites me, of course.
• I am not going to meet up with anyone randomly. I first want to talk, get to know you on a vanilla level. For my own sanity & safety.
• I have a preference for men that are a bit older
• My cat is my personality
• I love being praised and for someone to stimulate good behaviour
• I am neurodivergent
• I love the philosopher Albert Camus (and The Myth of Sisyphus, of course).
• I have two tattoos!
• Big praise kink, and I always love (sincere) compliments!

Feel free to message me to ask about more things!

P.S. I have taken the time to write my bio and my messages myself. If you use AI to write your messages, it is an ***nt turn-off. An ***nt no. I do not want a D/s or anything else with Chad(GPT). And yes, I will notice. I have noticed.

Anaal, iemand negeren, SOA’s, racisme, en nog veel meer. Work in progress :)