About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- Networking
- NSA (no strings...)
- Swingers
- BDSM Lovers
- Pic Exchange
- Cybersex
Description
scottish sigma male with a burning desire to submit to the right woman, mostly looking to get in touch with my submissive side. Try as I might. i just seem to attract submissive women irl and that doesn't lead to anyone really getting what they want. I'm a nature and ** lover but just have fish and birds atm, huge plant nerd. 420 friendly. love horror films, rock,metal and almost any other genre music todays pop idol x factor style musicians are killing the industry though and storms especially when coming back inside wet cold and getting naked in front of the fire with a coffee and a joint aaah bliss
looking to see what's happening out there. im a bit of a loner in real life people talk of a loneliness crisis going on, is it a crisis or are people realising that lifes dramas are usually caused by the other people in their lives? ive only ever experienced true loneliness when in other people's company... am i welrd? probably :p* People are just frustrating as hell these days. what a time to be alive.. trust me im not perfect either but i can see what's right in front of my face if being woke means being awake and using your eyes and your own mind to see the world around you as it actually is and not some mystical religous self replenishing earth that we we can just consume until we all burn and melt this mortal body but hey we then get eternal life right? i mean, we all get eternal life right? when we suck this little ball of energy dry. we get eternity and this and that and and and.. right? eternal life? . ballocks when we're free of this world were dead dead dead. but were also just energy vibrating on different frequencies, and that frequency gives us form, binds all humans just like the first of our species to evolve to you reading these ramblings and me a WOKE ass bitch lol i dont need gods or fairie godmothers im already eternal.. not this mind or body or desires or lusts and motivations, if lucky some of that has already been assimilated by nature recorded so to speak. energy is eternal we are energy.. no gods needed...
Hello, did you know we're probably on opposite sides of this planet, but you're vibrating on the same frequency as me, if you got this far.... Thank you for spending a moment here. put your hand up and either flip me off or give a peace sign. feel free to message me sometime and ask anything you want.. I don't bite... much.
ps if this profile is dumb as hell let me know please. I'd appreciate your honesty 😌
Limits
you tell me 
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
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I dont have a domme atm. But for me it's in a look. Master that one little glance and I'll be putty in your hands
Anything that's more than just... hey..
You can get away with a hey message easily but you need a full profile first, give the replyer somethingto go on. I'll happily put the work in but I do hate one word answers and texts.
That is true. Everyone is an individual and unique and should be treated that way. I guess even dominant people can be self-conscious or shy at times.
And I've been guilty of that.. you get a message from someone, then I automatically thought- here we go-what scam today. Usually, in that case I Read more… just chat and see where it goes. I don't call them scammers and I'm not rude to them or pushy. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt.
Yea, i also have a mixed history in that respect. Real life is easier depending on where you live and the nightlife in your city.
I didn't mean to come across as whiney either. I totally get why it's the way it is. It must be helluva frustrating on these sites for a lot of women. I've had ex's that I met online on vanilla chat sites and even there they can't escape the vile comments.
Honestly it's irl when you see someone in a club who exudes dominance *maybe it's perceived that way, and their not* when they have the resting bitch face *not an insult* that's when I don't approach *but want too even more usually* would you approach or think they just want peace and quiet?
That is very true, these days I find it harder and harder to find compatible people and just as difficult to make friendships *especially online* fif*** years ago it was so simple but as more people came on sites like these the worse some guys got, too the stage where everyone is tagged the same Read more… way now.
Eek I've always liked my solitude, community and friendship scare me a little these days. Other people bring so much unnecessary drama to life. Most people's drama in life would disappear fast by learning to enjoy their alone time more. Finding the right people could be interesting though.
May I ask you a question? I'll ask but obviously you don't need to answer...
Should submissive guys be the one to make the first move? Whether it be send the first message or talking to someone irl.
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