I have my kinks, I enjoy doing kinky things with the person I'm with. I like to go to clubs, munches and parties on occasion. I'm looking to make a connection with someone that I can get to know and build trust with and eventually explore each other's kinks.
No men, couples, or non-monogamy.
No flings or one night stands.
No , , or ***.
Nothing illegal
No serious bodily harm or permanent injuries.
No fire, needles, or deadly weapons.
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If the majority of accounts you are interacting with are scammers and not people you can date. Then the app doesn’t fulfill its job as a dating app while still taking your *** for the service…
And this is right now the truth. It’s Read more… getting worse and worse each day. And yet fet is taking *** and not giving anything back when you used a paid option like a kinky gift onto a scammer profile. How are you as a end user supposed to know?
Sorry Fet… but I am fed up. I had way to many conversations with people asking for *** in the past few days. While being blocked by the the message system from the last few humans here available. This is not we are getting scammed by scammers. This is we are getting scammed by fet itself willingly ignoring the problems.
If you don’t change it the platform is going to die.
It's definitely disappointing because I see a lot of potential with this app/site. It's nice to have something more focused on people who are looking for partners in the BDSM community.
Fetlife is a great place to meet people as well, but it's a lot more leg work on finding specific types of people. It can be done, but you might be sifting through hundreds of profiles. I like that on here I can search for people based on my preferences that I'm looking for (gender, role, kinks, age range, distance, etc)
It's a big ick seeing scammers operate openly on here. It was what turned me off of using the popular vanilla dating services.
I don't mind paying for the service if there is clear use that the funds are being used to benefit the end user. Again, back to fet, it's clear that when you pay them, that their team is using those funds to make it a place that is better for the people who are generous enough to support them. But here it seems like they sucker you in by hiding core features behind the pay wall, and put minimal effort into the quality of life for the people who are giving their time and *** to use it.
I recently joined and it has honestly been an exhausting experience compared to using FetLife. Dealt with more scammers in the past few weeks than I have at any other point in my life. The only thing that gives me hope is that I have talked to a couple genuine people on here that I enjoy talking to.