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Status

Not single

married with Ask me

Personal details

Gender Man
Age 36
Status Not single
Height 180cm
Weight 89kg
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Middle
Beard Full beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Body hair Some hair
Dick length 12cm
Dick width 3cm
Zodiac sign Gemini
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

I love when submission is given more willingly.

caregiver/daddy dom:-

I definitely prefer to use praise and positive rein***ment to build a subs confidence with me.

I’m still relatively new to the the scene so learning what I do and don’t like as i go.

yes, I’m married, no it’s not clean cut.. ask if you are actually interested in a conversation..

Also, I’m a dad of 2 just so you aren’t surprised later..

open to chat so send me a dm.

Limits

toilet play, ***, vomit, real world exposure, anything illegal

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SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD wrote something in the forum
  • 13.09.2025 14:52:15
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single
Time we understood unsolicited d**k pics!

Never sent one myself and always wondered the same.. the conclusion I have come to is that they believe that what is (in my opinion) potentially the least attractive part of the male body to focus on, is in actual fact, the best feature they have or that it is the most absolutely stunning cock in Read more… the world that will make a woman swoon in an instance 😂
Now, don’t get me wrong, if I had a monster that could compete for the world record, ‘maybe’ I’d wanna show that beast off, otherwise, it’s just.. meh 😂
Looking forward to others thoughts lol

LikeDommeDelight, Katsuyama, Shilo66 · Jump to discussion
SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD wrote something in the forum
  • 09.09.2025 1:58:10
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single
Why relinquish power when I’ve spent years fighting to have it

The brain really does work in some weird ass ways 😂
I’ve gotten to the point I just kinda.. do 🤷‍♂️

SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD has updated the limits
  • 09.09.2025 0:10:20
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single
toilet play, ***, vomit, real world exposure, anything illegal
SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD has updated their profile description
  • 09.09.2025 0:07:36
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single
I love when submission is given more willingly.

caregiver/daddy dom:-

I definitely prefer to use praise and positive rein***ment to build a subs confidence with me.

I’m still relatively new to the the scene so learning what I do and don’t like as i go.

yes, I’m married, no it’s not clean cut.. Read more… ask if you are actually interested in a conversation..

Also, I’m a dad of 2 just so you aren’t surprised later..

open to chat so send me a dm.
SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD wrote something in the forum
  • 30.08.2025 18:52:50
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single
Unwanted Sub messages to Male Doms?

I’ve personally only been approached a handful of times and always been very respectful..
I hate the entitlement a lot of ‘doms’ think they have and as someone else mentioned, it’s stomach turning a lot of the time.
If I ever reach out, it is always respectful and never sexual as it takes time for Read more… both sides to get there in my opinion 🤷‍♂️

SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD finished the BDSM Test
  • 31.07.2025 21:13:09
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single

100%
Dominant

25%
Submissive

SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD has bought a VIP-membership!
  • 15.05.2025 15:12:10
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single
SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD wrote something in the forum
  • 20.02.2025 21:07:38
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single
Sometimes even Men have to say No

In no way was I inferring that men in general lack that self control.. ‘some’ men do.. equally, so do ‘some’ women.. I don’t know anyone here from Adam, it was a simple comment, not meant to cause any upset. Apologies if it did.

SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD wrote something in the forum
  • 20.02.2025 17:11:13
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single
Sometimes even Men have to say No

Right decision in my mind.. as you’ve detailed, those situations can end horrendously and often isn’t worth the risk 🤷‍♂️
Fair play for having the self control too!

Likethoughtcriminal, Shilo66, submissiveVIKING · Jump to discussion
SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD is married
  • 17.02.2025 4:03:18
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single
SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD has uploaded a new photo
  • 16.02.2025 23:21:40
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single
  • SoftDomD
SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD shared the limits
  • 15.02.2025 14:47:36
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single
extreme , extreme , toilet play, ***, vomit, real world exposure, anything illegal
SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD wrote something about themself
  • 15.02.2025 14:46:46
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single
I enjoy when submission is given willingly.

I’d say I’m a soft/daddy dom as I definitely prefer to use praise and positive rein***ment to build a subs confidence with me.

just looking to chat to people and have some fun

open to chat so send me a dm.
SoftDomD
icon-wio SoftDomD signed up on Fetish.com
  • 15.02.2025 12:44:07
  • Male (36)
  • Lancing
  • Not single

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