I am a subbie and have been for many years. My Dom was my husband, and he rescued me from an abusive marriage. He died about 5 years ago and have been out of the lifestyle since.

A heads up i am not in my earliest flush of youth, being in my early 60s.
Also I am disabled and use a walker when outside. Indoors I can walk reasonably without aids.

I insist on a safe word, even for discipline.

I am find it difficult enough without my husband, sex would be be impossible for me, the guilt would kill me.

I love OTK being held ro stop me reaching back. The bondage takes all control away, so releasing.

Well, that's a bit about what i am looking for.

Stephie