About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- LTR (relationship)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
NOTE: thank you for those who reach out, but for some of you: please take the time to form a complete sentence. ☝️
I have pics I can share but I will not share them without a few messages.
I am an attractive tall French gentleman from Paris, I went to 32 countries. I also speak 4 languages.
I am lucky enough to be able to live in the US and Europe. I lived 10 years in NYC and moved to Chicago.
I like astronomy, art, gardening, science, and great food. I have plenty of interests in my life besides BDSM.
While I'm constantly learning, I have several decades of training and experience and competent in several areas of BDSM activities, as well as D/s relationships.
I'm not a service top, or kinkster, (there is nothing wrong with that but not to be confused) I am a genuine dominant in the BDSM term.
Kindness makes me melt, being genuine and authenticity is what I am looking for first. I am generous, jovial and worldly.
My search is not limited to Chicago as I can travel and reside in multiple countries. Miles do not scare me, so if you are outside of this city, no issue.
Peace, Sir Marius.
Limits
I have many, just ask.
My roles & archetype
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Chicago with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
TPE means total power exchange. Consensual power exchange extends to other areas of the submissive life and is not limited to the bedroom. It also defines the relationship to her/his dominant.
Ranging from clothes, name, hair cut, work, daily life, etc…
TPE is different for different people but Read more… it just means the submissive relinquishes the power in most areas of their life.
1. can you please tell me what BDSM stands for? Are there different traditions? Where does it come from?
2. What are the different safety protocols you put in place in order to protect your bottom/sub physically and mentally? Safewords? Read more… Aftercare?
3. In a scene where rope is involved what else do you think a top/dom needs in the room for safety?
4. When do you discuss limits and which tools do you use in order to discuss those limits?
5. What is the difference between top/bottom and Dominant/submissive?
If they don’t get those basics questions right: RUN.
As a new individual discovering D/s, ask those questions, don’t assume anyone is a Dom because they so.
Quiz them, vet them, no mercy, your safety first. Of course you need to be able to answer those questions yourself hence why knowledge is power and….safety.
Peace, Sir Marius.
BDSM takes ethics.
Terms are blurred, not defined, Dom is Top, sub is bottom and Read more… everything gets reduced to bunch of sexual fetishes while not even knowing or caring that we have traditions.
There is not one true way, but words matter, meaning maters, etiquette matters and most here are neither BDSM dominants nor BDSM submissives. Kinksters tops and bottoms at best, as if porn was having a threesome with Christian Grey and Victoria Secret.
Definitions then:
A Top is a person in a dominant role, in control of the scene AND is actively "giving" an activity.
A service top is a person in the submissive role, who is not in control of the scene, even though they are also actively doing the activity.
A Top Temporarily gains control through genuine consensual power exchange where power is transferred from the bottom to the Top with agreed-upon limits and restrictions for a limited time, called a "scene"
A genuine Top dictates the scene within agreed upon requirements, hard limits (restrictions), soft limits, and boundaries.
Dominant: An individual who has received and is competent at using substantial power exchange and authority, granted by the submissive in order to manage one or more aspects of their life up to 24/7, with agreed-upon limits, within an D/s relationship, where genuine power exchange extends beyond the parameters of a scene and form the basis of the relationship.
Si la lune a comme un air de fête
Si la neige ne fond pas au printemps
Alors j'aurais peut-être le temps.
I have pics I can share but I will not share them without a few messages.
I am an attractive tall French gentleman from Paris, I went to 32 countries. I also speak 4 languages.
I am Read more… lucky enough to be able to live in the US and Europe. I lived 10 years in NYC and moved to Chicago.
I like astronomy, art, gardening, science, and great food. I have plenty of interests in my life besides BDSM.
While I'm constantly learning, I have several decades of training and experience and competent in several areas of BDSM activities, as well as D/s relationships.
I'm not a service top, or kinkster, (there is nothing wrong with that but not to be confused) I am a genuine dominant in the BDSM term.
Kindness makes me melt, being genuine and authenticity is what I am looking for first. I am generous, jovial and worldly.
My search is not limited to Chicago as I can travel and reside in multiple countries. Miles do not scare me, so if you are outside of this city, no issue.
Peace, Sir Marius.
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