Interesting problem. I agree with Dottie2Hottie.
It’s great that your trying to get your wife what she wants but guys are responded to at a much lower rate then girls. You may have much better luck if your partner comes on here and complements another girl.?

Love some well written smut. I felt like I was there 😉, Well done.

The latest version of the book “the ethical slut” has communication prompts, methods that have worked for others and ways to work through things together as well as individually

Do you think kink shaming someone asking a question is a helpful thing to do.. on a kink social group?
Being monogamous might be thee flavour that’s great for you, but I would wonder at the urge to yuck somebody else’s yum, eh?

Most places will have a set of rules, just read and follow them. Try to be at ease and just be yourself. Going in following the rules and doing a little research (such as knowing PRICK — Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink) is all you really need.
For bonus points may I suggest: Read more…
Leave your judgements behind along with preconceived expectations and instead employ a bit of open honesty, curiosity and the desire to connect, this will set you up to be grounded but open and likely attractive.
Good luck, may you meet likeminded souls

https://youtu.be/Bj60InmphBE?feature=shared

Haha not to mention I learned how to get a better orgasm than I had ever expected before

That the idea that neither romantic love nor sex is the same as the story that we’ve been fed. There’s far more to be discovered, and there’s different strokes for different folks.

For me, it was reassuring finding people like myself. People that are sex-positive. That I’m not crazy or alone, I’m good as I am.

I like the idea behind your question and that your asking it 😉

Ps: I’ve also found a type of cowgirl where the girl is leaning forward and the guy is fucking her from underneath while pushing her hips back and down to be intensely pleasurable, as well as the crab sex and corkscrew positions (they were with fairly intense thrusting and had stimulation before Read more… hand).
Hahaha I had to look up what these positions were called)

To answer your question (and this is indeed after or with other sexual stimulation) the anvil position