Also being honest with him and yourself at all times. If you start getting feelings for him or he does you and neither of you want that you tell each other that it's time to stop. I could be wrong on that but being fair to eachother is always good, as sometimes friends with benefits can still lead Read more… to good friends, sometimes

I totally agree with @Darkwolf513it sucks being alone

I may be single and somewhat unusual but I'd rather talk to a woman like a human being. I was brought up to respect everyone and I have stuck to that. Online dating is hard as it is why do some men make it harder by being idiots I wish I could answer that for the ladies but I cant.... Why do some Read more… men treat women like objects , I mean they don't know the woman they're talking to but the first thing they may come out with is a dick pic or a degrading comment, I do have female friends who are here and they tell me that's what has happened to them.

I see this as a breach of trust. He assumed that you'd be fine with another woman. He never discussed this prior to you in any conversation while online. When you turn up he asks you if you've had a threesome but doesn't inform you that there is a woman there or maybe coming over to join you at any Read more… point? If in a D/s relationship or even as D/s play partners you need trust. If a second person is to join in, as far as I am concerned for myself, is that we both meet the person I/she would like to join in with our play time we talk through what we want to happen what we like and see if we all in agreement. We meet several times then that's fine. There may be times that I may vary this but I still would make sure that all parties are happy with the scene as to not breach trust or consent at any time as would rather have a true submissive woman become my sub than end up being classed as a abuser of trust or breacher of boundaries.

I have attempted not to join in on the thread as I feel it's not benefitting anyone! Men and women have always been different however, most men have always been more aggressive when doing online dating. I have lots of female friends (who I'm not interested in sexually) say they have had abusive Read more… messages from the start,r have had nice messages then once no reply they turn nasty or lastly if they reply to these messages with a "no thank you" or "sorry not interested" then some men become arseholes and are nasty with attempting to degrade the person they were trying to attract! Do you really think that this is showing them respect? I have always attempted to treat women/ladies as I would like any man to treat any female members of my family, which is respect and dignity.
Once we have discussed what we want from each other and we are in a relationship with a direction of our roles then honorific can be discussed.
So basically everyone (no matter what gender) needs to be able to show respect to each other, otherwise what becomes of society, our kink society let alone all other societies?
Not sure if what I say makes people think but bashing on each other is not a good way for us to go down!

Well that escalated quickly lol. I wasn't gonna comment on this thread as I think it's pointless to. There are men that don't know how to talk to the opposite sex and we as men do, "majority of us", make mistakes both sexes do. However, we have somehow lost our ability to communicate with each Read more… other. We need learn that skill to ensure we treat each with the respect we both deserve.

Which area do exactly live, I'm in Great Bridge so can go to a few near me as stated I've been to a few nearby.

I have attended a few pre-covid. They were Stafford, Tamworth, Birmingham mid-week, Wolverhampton, Walsall munches, I now have recently restarted Wolverhampton, Tamworth munches and have attended the first POC munch. I hope to attend a lot more in the near future.