Looking for an intelligent Alpha male who can stand up to my dominant behavior in the day and make me surrender at night. I'm new to all this and am not the type to bow and obey. I've been fighting all my life and can't fully let that go. So, I am looking for a man who's strong enough in spirit to overpower me and worthy for me to surrender to.

I'm in my 30s and would prefer someone who is too, but I won't rule out a good match who's further afield. Still, no one over 50 and definitely no ***s.