Koby Positively, You already have the basics/foundations. I say before talking to each other.... research and see what resonates with you. Dominance can mean different things to different people. In order to shed your anxieties.. you need to see where you fit in and how. Once you have undertaken your research, you then want to compare notes and find harmony with your husband. Positively, You already have the basics/foundations. I say before talking to each other.... research and see what resonates with you. Dominance can mean different things to different people. In order to shed your anxieties.. you need to see where you fit in and how. Once you have undertaken your research, you then want to compare notes and find harmony with your husband.

Deleted profile Tbh take what he's given you as first hand experience, certainly from a mental position. That in itself is enough to beat the nerves and give you confidence. The action and physical you can discuss and explore and enjoy ..dunna worry lassie! Tbh take what he's given you as first hand experience, certainly from a mental position. That in itself is enough to beat the nerves and give you confidence. The action and physical you can discuss and explore and enjoy ..dunna worry lassie!

seonny Switch: I am not a natural at it. Ask him what he likes, interested, desires... detailed questions. After you sense his direction, then do some research on "what he is looking for", or try think of the ideas. Talk to him about your ideas, and listen to his feedback. This is how I start. Hope it helps. Switch: I am not a natural at it. Ask him what he likes, interested, desires... detailed questions. After you sense his direction, then do some research on "what he is looking for", or try think of the ideas. Talk to him about your ideas, and listen to his feedback. This is how I start. Hope it helps.