AND I much prefer a good nipple sucking to having cute jewelry lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

Also, *** is relative. Some of us have higher *** tolerances than others, so no one is going to be able to tell you how it’s going to feel to you.

Speaking from experience…..short answer is no, it’s not worth it. (IMO) So they never TRULY heal. I had mine for several years and they STILL secreted lymph fluid & sebum. It’s clear and kinda sticky. It gets crusty on your nipples/piercings and is NOT cute. If you get them done separately the Read more… second feels like it hurts more because you know what to expect. If you get a piercer that isn’t PERFECT you can lose sensation (or lose partial sensation) in your nipples. And if ANYTHING we have it worse than men because during that time of the month your breasts can become more sensitive/swell due to hormones and this can make the piercing feel irritated. There’s also fistula sweat which is where the inside of the hole sheds skin cells and the hole secretes that also which crusts….years after it’s “healed”. Imagine that in your mouth. No thanks. 😅 Not to mention snagging on bras, shirts, sheets, fingers (him behind you and scooping his hands upward toward your breasts, whoops!), etc etc etc. I had hoops, might be better with barbells, but at the end of the day it looked cute (when they were clean), but didn’t add ANYTHING to my life, so I took them out. I honestly got tired of cleaning the crust off alllll the time. 🙄

I like ma’am just because he can use it in public or around friends. Many call me mistress, some calm me mommy. Mommy is my least fave because I AM a mom, though mine are grown. For subs….depends on their comfort level….pet, little bitch, good little slut, good boy etc

*heteroflexible

If a gay biological male reads “heterosexual” they may think he may be interested in a gay relationship, which he has said he is not. He enjoys vaginal intercourse, but is open to being with a trans man that has a vagina. It seems there are still some things he is working out, but he knows that he Read more… is not interested in a penis at all. So again, just explaining in his bio, like many people who are exploring/curious have done, I’m straight but I’m open to trans men that haven’t had bottom surgery (or something like that) would be the CLEAREST way to communicate his interests.

But that opens the door to men with a penis, which he has stated he is NOT interested in. (Apologies for 2 posts my internet connection is spotty where I am, and my original post was not showing up, so I thought it glitched.)

@gluttonouspuppy understood, but I *** heteroflexible may send the message that he could be gay, which he does not want. I think good old conversation would be the way. And thankfully we all have the safety of the FET app, though I do understand how it can go IRL. If the wording of his profile Read more… comes across as offensive to some they can just steer clear of messaging him. If HE is interested he can reach out first and explain himself in more detail.

@gluttonouspuppy while I completely understand what you’re saying as it applies to the “outside world” here on FET we’re all looking for our kink, so if OP was interested in being with a trans man he could message you and explain/chat. If you felt unsafe due to the language on his profile you could Read more… just avoid starting a conversation with him, and if he reached out to you, you’d be protected by having an online conversation. Heteroflexible may send the wrong message that he may be interested in men/gay. I think all that needs to happen is conversation, which thankfully due to the app, we can all have safely.

So I’d say that then. Hetero, but open to trans men before bottom surgery?? If they have a problem with what YOU call YOURSELF I wouldnt be bothered with them in the first place.

And for that matter, there are a BUNCH of men that enjoy pegging but want NOTHING to do with a man. Pleasure is pleasure, I’m not sure why everyone needs a label.

@thornyswitch I think that has now become a gray area. He’s not attracted or interested in a dick, and having sex with a man. It doesn’t sound like he want a dick in the ass….he specifically said vagina. Obviously if that vagina is attached to a person who presents as a man, the most I would said Read more… is curious. I’m not sure I’d even say bi?!