I want something different, something real, something I can feel on more levels than the surface. I've found someone I am after.....

we are both switches. we aren't chasing but open to a 3rd. we definitely don't want a poly thing with tons of people. just maybe one more, maybe a little dominant...

we love video games and writing music. She is a medical assistant, I'm a bouncer. we're very relaxed. She runs a couple of bdsm learning groups if anyone ever needs a good resource you can find her through me. I'm also happy to simply chat and make friends. so pretty much anything, except toxicity.

I hope anyone who took the time to read this has a wonderful day

my main limits are being ghosted. lack of communication. anything that belongs in a toilet. anything to do with kids or ***s. permanent mutilation