I'm fairly new to this and am really awful at writing about myself! I do appreciate you taking the time to read this... if you make it to the end...

About me

I have known for many many years that I wasn't what most people consider "normal" and there was more that I needed not just sexually but in a partner. I crave direction and stability. I am in a male dominant field with my career and have to be very dominant so in a relationship I just need my partner to take the reins. I thrive off the praise that comes with completing a task. And I love to serve, doing what I'm told or asked to do gives me purpose and a sense of accomplishment. Because if that I do class myself as a submissive, for now... that could always change as I start to become more experienced and find the things I truly love. Getting me to that point takes a lot of work though. My submission isn't something given to just anyone. I have to have a connection with my partner and trust that when I do submit I will be safe. Not just physically but mentally!

What im looking for

Coming on fet is a way for me to meet other like minded people and be part of a community. I am not searching for anything other than the community and a place I fit in and feel safe. I am hoping to learn more about the lifestyle and find who I truly am as a person.

If you made it to the end, thank you for taking the time to read about me.

I am still learning what my limits are. but a Huge hard no for me is CNC