Kate for president!
I am actually grateful for those messages, it let's me know immediately that that is not a guy I want to be dealing with

Contradictions... I know a few things about that.
I have friends who I can talk to about this stuff because I chose those friends for their open hearts and minds.
Having said that, it's certainly not something I discuss with everyone, not because I'm ashamed but rather because it's not everyone's Read more… business. The main thing for me was becoming comfortable with myself and the cool thing is that you're on the right track to that. Asking why is natural and important. We should have a healthy and constructive curiosity about ourselves. Part of my why discovery was realising that my ideas of normal had come from a sexual repressed society and that those ideas weren't real