About Me.. It is
Masochistic /sub /slave/ Brat/pain slut.

Cisgender Female, Heterosexual.
I have NO interest in same sex relationships, unless it's friendship or mentoring.
Nor do I wish to be a couples play thing.

My interest depends on my mood, depending on the weather, depends on the focus of my attention, at any point in time.

Once I have completed my vetting process. This will be by a series of chats, dates, and play sessions that live up to both our needs.
If we develop something amazingly good, there may be room for Him being my primary partner. I am polyamorous/ENM. I am open with my partners and never deny what i do.

This is a trial period for both of us to discuss expectations, needs, and negotiate terms. We are both free to wallk away at any point, but don't be an asshole and ghost me. Simple curtesy and respect are not hard.

I do not belong to anyone until I choose to offer my submission and have this accepted by my Dom. He will then become his chosen honorific during our time together, and he will be the only focus of my attention to serve him obediently as he dictates. In time, I will expect a collar and will serve to be trained to my Doms' rules of behaviour. We are all unique.

Experience is essential, age 35 - 55. As is attraction, strength, intelligence, inventiveness, and confidence. I favour, bear type men, bearded husky guys. Well, groomed hair bears. If you can pick me up and throw me around, you re more than welcome. Beware, I fight back!!

I am a psychological thrill seeker, always available in and out of the bedroom. I enjoy tasks and rules, I expect to be forbidden favours unless I ask permission. I will test your patience and authority for my own pleasure. Expect surprises, entertainment, and erotica. I am an attention brat and need input daily. You have thumbs and can text (can't you?) when we are not together.

Please read my fetish list and decide if, as a Dom, you can give me most of those things; with a focus on pain, bondage, and restraint, the harder the better !
There are very few things that are hard limits for me.

I have further fantasies that I would like to explore with him. This is an immersive, pure D/s dynamic relationship for the right type of Dom. Must be committed and attentive. I will expect vanilla dates, social outings, and gifts of love..
I dont require your bank details. I don't require a live-in lover..
Just a Powerful Bastard of a Manly Nature.

Will reply to most msgs as long as your intro is whitty, articulate, and respectful.

LIKING AND LURKING, WILL NOT get you very far as I WONT INTIATE CONTACT!
SO BOYS USE YA FINGERS! Ya might get lucky ...

I AM into 1950 household and service orientated, I AM also Sapiosexual, and if you bore the shit out of me, I will either reply with monosyllabic boring answers or tell you straight up. As such, I will hold back and EXPECT the Dominant to MAKE THE RUNNING TO PERSUE a conversation, as it is fitting for my place. And I'm a sucker for primal hunters... I'm not a newbie, I'm very well versed in bdsm and I know what I want.


If you ask me what im looking for, then you clearly didn't read this far!!


If i engage with you, in any other way, you probably aren't my Dom. Just a play thing, a fleshy toy, we all have urges!

Do not Msg. If you have NO photos, you are looking for a shag. Are new to kink.

HARD LIMITS - Scat, piss, vomit, animals and illegal activity, milking, some medical play. Foot fetishists, pegging.
Online play sessions. Random photo exchange. Wank on your own or pay for it!

SOFT LIMITS - Threesomes/group.



Desires and Fantasies
To be controlled, bound, and used, I have a penchant for pain, and it turns me on. Must be a strict committed master, I will be HIS, and he will set the scene and provide rules and guide our interactions upon accepting my submission, to play with, and to be protected. My Dom will have my full attention at his command. I will provide erotic entertainment. Collar, Chastity, obedience.

Piss, Scat, vomit, illegal activity, online relationships. foot festists, pegging.