Note: I am not here that often.

I am not special, but I am specific.

Partnered, ENM nerd dad. We date separately.

Me:
I would like kink friends.

Also me:
I am a 51 year old AuDHD INTP man. Can I even make regular friends?

Non-kinkwise, I am basically Raymond Holt from Brooklyn Nine Nine, except I am not gay and I am not a cop.

I like playing shows and making records. I love my job. Love libraries, museums, parks, used record and book stores, and dive bars. There is not a lot I cannot talk about.

One particular facet of my neurodivergence is that I don't really take hints and I def don't give them. If you want to talk to me it's best to be as direct as possible.

FL: icanlivewithit

Member: FVK, INTP, AuDHD

race play, ***, non-consent