WHO AM I:
I’m a dominant male with over twenty years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle. I suppose I’d have to write that I was born this way. My earliest memories include restraining my grade school classmates even though I wouldn’t know what it meant for many years. I’m a professional that has traveled extensively for work. I’ve had play sessions with hundreds of different women around the world. I’ve had three long-term M/s or D/s relationships that were absolutely amazing. I believe that you have to put yourself “out there” to find out what your really interested in. That means having play sessions. I’ve read quite a few profiles that read that the slave or submissive does not want casual play, they don’t want to session with an experienced Dom or Master… they want a long-term relationship. In my opinion, that simply doesn’t work in any kind of relationship (kinky or vanilla).
It’s helpful if individuals write a few sentences about their experience and their end goal, but the path to getting there is not going to be exclusively through chatting. Of course, it can start that way, however… I like to move things to a physical meeting as quickly as possible. In my experience, there are an enormous number of scams on sites like Alt.com (I’m not singling out this one by any means), members that aren’t even real people or have completely misrepresented themselves or are looking for clients (which I have nothing wrong with… just provide transparency). A physical meeting can be organized to be perfectly safe. Take a cab. Meet in a public place (Starbucks or whatever), have someone come with you (maybe staying in the parking lot), use a Trac Phone, etcetera. It helps avoid emailing, chatting, speaking on the phone for weeks or months only to find out that the person doesn’t live in your country or they’re a man that’s been representing themselves as a woman for three months. It also removes the possibility that you’re communicating with a minor. That’s unacceptable.

WHAT AM I INTO:
Wow… this is a tough one. I’m dominant. I love to train women. I like fetish clothing (leather, latex, pvc, rubber, etcetera). I love bondage. I’m a rigger, but I like all kinds of bondage. I have a dungeon on the first floor of my loft. Since it was a refurbished factory (made into condominiums), the wooden beams are exposed and I’ve screwed many hooks in them. I have a cage at the foot of me bed… and too many toys to even begin to mention. I decided to post pictures of ladies that I’ve had a relationship with over the years. Some just casual. Some monogamous long-term. It will give you an idea of what I like.

Desires and Fantasies
WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR:
I enjoy meeting women with an interest in BDSM. Whether they’ve never been dominated before or have been a live-in slave in a M/s relationship… I know how to approach both extremes and everyone in-between. Of course, I’m looking for that one submissive/slave that’s magic. In the meantime, I realize I’m not going to find her if I don’t meet women and begin developing relationships. I know this may come off sounding a bit crass, but it’s really no different that dating in the vanilla world. You go on a date and if there’s nothing there, you move on. At least with the BDSM lifestyle, if he’s not your soulmate, you can still have a kinky relationship with him to learn as much as you can about yourself and those feeling inside you that you can’t quite explain.