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Personal details

Gender Man
Age 40
Status Single
Height 186cm
Weight 84kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Beard Full beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac sign Scorpio
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

I pretty much deal with life through humor and while I may be kind of quiet at first, it doesn't take long for the quick wit, sarcasm and dark humor to start coming out! I'm open, honest and enjoy getting to know people. Anything you want to know about me is only a question away! I run my own business and have active hobbies, but I also enjoy relaxing at home when I can.

I'm looking for a real connection with someone! Catching the eye is one thing, catching the mind is a challenge. Catch my mind and you'll definitely have my full attention! I'm looking for the right fit to help me to be the best I can be so that we can both get the most enjoyment from the experience. Definitely looking for someone that wants to build trust and openness.

I'm a person first, so if you're planning to message me and tell me how you're going to put me in my place or start giving me commands, then do us both a favor and do better. I'm not jumping into a dynamic with someone in 5 minutes. Get to know me, ask questions. I'll do the same. My submission is earned just as I would expect to earn your dominance. Trust is built, respect is earned, limits will be respected absolutely.

If you're still reading this far and still interested, then send me a message and let's chat! Who knows, you might just make a new friend! Maybe more!

Limits

Soft limits: I'm still finding what my limits are.... Have something you want to try let's talk about it....

Hard limits:
Blood, scat, piss, public humiliation, pain for the sake of pain.

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TJ38S
icon-wio TJ38S wrote something in the forum
  • 16.04.2024 18:46:51
  • Male (40)
  • Canton
  • Single
Femdom dating for submissive men

I wouldn't be opposed to the idea. I think it might actually make some things easier that way.

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TJ38S
icon-wio TJ38S wrote something in the forum
  • 02.04.2024 19:29:25
  • Male (40)
  • Canton
  • Single
Femdom dating for submissive men

It's definitely tough finding what you are looking for and the rejection definitely gets old! Been going through it myself. It's a lot of the issues you've been having and for me quite a few that really just immediately want someone to boss around and couldn't be less interested in getting to know Read more… you or finding out what you might be into or want. Maybe one day I'll find the right person!

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TJ38S
icon-wio TJ38S has updated their profile description
  • 17.03.2024 17:47:05
  • Male (40)
  • Canton
  • Single
I pretty much deal with life through humor and while I may be kind of quiet at first, it doesn't take long for the quick wit, sarcasm and dark humor to start coming out! I'm open, honest and enjoy getting to know people. Anything you want to know about me is only a question away! I run my own Read more… business and have active hobbies, but I also enjoy relaxing at home when I can.

I'm looking for a real connection with someone! Catching the eye is one thing, catching the mind is a challenge. Catch my mind and you'll definitely have my full attention! I'm looking for the right fit to help me to be the best I can be so that we can both get the most enjoyment from the experience. Definitely looking for someone that wants to build trust and openness.

I'm a person first, so if you're planning to message me and tell me how you're going to put me in my place or start giving me commands, then do us both a favor and do better. I'm not jumping into a dynamic with someone in 5 minutes. Get to know me, ask questions. I'll do the same. My submission is earned just as I would expect to earn your dominance. Trust is built, respect is earned, limits will be respected absolutely.

If you're still reading this far and still interested, then send me a message and let's chat! Who knows, you might just make a new friend! Maybe more!
TJ38S
icon-wio TJ38S finished the BDSM Test
  • 12.03.2024 6:43:23
  • Male (40)
  • Canton
  • Single

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Dominant

65%
Submissive

TJ38S
icon-wio TJ38S wrote something in the forum
  • 07.03.2024 20:53:10
  • Male (40)
  • Canton
  • Single
They are NOT your submissive

You're overcomplicating it.... The voice command to take a picture works wonders....

TJ38S
icon-wio TJ38S wrote something in the forum
  • 07.03.2024 12:09:55
  • Male (40)
  • Canton
  • Single
They are NOT your submissive

Absolutely, I've weeded out several "Dommes" exactly that way. There are far too many out there that either come off as pushy and/or a bully or that see a submissive man as a walking open wallet. Definitely makes finding the right person difficult.....most of the time it makes finding someone that Read more… makes it past a 5 minute conversation difficult! Confidence is sexy, being a bully is not.

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TJ38S
icon-wio TJ38S wrote something in the forum
  • 07.03.2024 11:58:36
  • Male (40)
  • Canton
  • Single
They are NOT your submissive

So true! Well put!

TJ38S
icon-wio TJ38S wrote something in the forum
  • 28.02.2024 15:31:39
  • Male (40)
  • Canton
  • Single
Inferiority and Superiority

Truly believe I'm an inferior person? Not at all. Hyrrolar above me is right. There's far more nuance to it than that. I think if I actually believed that I wouldn't be able to function as well in the real world. I think there's a very important distinction to be made between believing myself Read more… inferior vs going along with the dynamic and giving up that power and control at the time in the dynamic. Ironically, Hyrrolar is also right about the other part... Speaking for myself I run a successful business, volunteer my time in other places and I'm very competitive at several other hobbies. So, no, I don't actually believe I'm inferior to anybody but there is definitely a lot of subtlety and nuance to that dynamic. People are complicated!

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icon-wio TJ38S posted a status update
  • 27.02.2024 3:55:14
  • Male (40)
  • Canton
  • Single
I feel like I shouldn't even have to say this but apparently I do. If all you see is dollar signs when you look at me then keep it moving!
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  • 23.02.2024 6:15:11
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  • Canton
  • Single
I'm finding myself and my place in the lifestyle since I'm finally free to really be myself and I'm excited for the possibilities and prospect of not having to hide parts of myself anymore.

For the right person I can be very submissive and obedient. I love to please and I'm willing to try most Read more… things at least once and always open to new conversations and connections.

If you think you could be the right person for me then reach out and let's talk about it!
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  • 23.02.2024 6:02:18
  • Male (40)
  • Canton
  • Single