Hello, My name is Thomas, but everybody calls me TJ. What I am lookingbl for is difficult to explain, but I will try to be concise. My day to day is filled with responsibilities that I take for myself and others. I want a place where I can set those responsibilities down for a while. A place where I can relax with someone. I am happy to elaborate more if you ask. I am in a polyamorous marriage, and my wife is aware of everything I do. I'll leave most of my personal life a mystery until someone wants to know more about me.

I usually have a very carefree jovial personality, but I do get serious when the situation calls for it. I have a serious job that requires me to travel a lot, so distance is not a big factor. My hobbies include but are not limited to martial arts, anime, video games, tabletop games, movies, stand-up comedy, going to the gym, audio books, and going to the zoo/aquarium. That is just the tip of the iceberg. If you want to know more, please feel free to reach out. I love chatting with people.

My interests very wildly between dominant and submissive traits. On my dominant side, I enjoy obedience training, exhibition, impact, and pet play, to name a few. On my submissive side, I have a big mommy kink, I also enjoy body worship, role playing, and experimenting with new things. I am still finding myself and won't claim to be an expert at anything. I'm always up to try new things and want to learn more.

There is still so much that I haven't experienced, so this list is not set in stone, and is subject to change.

As of right now, my limits consist of

Being cuckolded, SPH, chastity, anything illegal immoral or unethical, anything that will permanently change the way I look.