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Tom0404
Tom0404
Man · 37 years · Westwoodside, 1 km

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Description

🏍️ A little about me
I’m a mechanic by trade and absolutely love motorbikes and cars. I’m also into the kink lifestyle, and I’m naturally dominant, although I can definitely switch depending on the situation and the person.
I’m always up for learning something new. I’m particularly interested in exploring kinks such as rigging, rope and other areas I haven’t experienced yet. If there’s something you enjoy or think I might like, ask me about it — I’m open-minded, curious and always willing to learn. I promise, I don’t bite… unless you ask nicely 😉
Outside of this lifestyle, I have a normal life too. I’m just a genuine, down-to-earth person who believes in treating people with respect. I’d say I’m emotionally intelligent, patient and always up for a good laugh.
I have ADHD and take medication for it, which can occasionally mean I randomly have a bout of Tourette’s-type symptoms due to side effects 😅 So if I suddenly say or do something completely random, that’s probably why!
I’m not really into talking behind a screen for six months 🥱. I’d much rather actually meet, have a coffee and see if we click. If you want to get to know the real me, let’s meet for a Costa ☕️ and get to know each other in a safe, relaxed environment. No pressure, no expectations — just two people having a chat.
One last thing: please bear with me. Recently my confidence, self-worth and self-esteem have taken a bit of a knock, and I’m working on getting myself back out there and feeling like myself again. So if I message you and it occasionally comes across a little awkward or doesn’t quite make sense, please know that it’s never intentional 😊
I’m just looking to meet genuine people, have some fun, learn new things, maybe find my soul mate, have a laugh along the way and see where things naturally go.
If you’re curious, open-minded and fancy getting to know me, say hello. 😊

Limits

abandonment play big no no

more to be added as I find them

My Places

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Leeds, West Yorkshire, UK