About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
New sub looking for a Dom or Daddy to help
her learn about her kinks. No nudes or videos will be sent, so if you can’t respect that, then don’t message me. Looking for a real Dom/Daddy, not just the trolls looking for nudes.
Would love to meet up for coffee and see if we
have a connection, discuss what boundaries and limits. 😈
Looking for a steady FWB, possibly leading into a LTR (not keeping it off the table, cuz you never know!)
Limits
no bodily fluids (, poop, )
am learning my limits currently
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
My places
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New sub looking for a Dom or Daddy to help
her learn about her kinks. No nudes or videos will be sent, so if you can’t respect that, then don’t message me. Looking for a real Dom/Daddy, not just the trolls looking for nudes.
Would love to meet up for coffee and see if we
have a connection, Read more… discuss what boundaries and limits. 😈
Looking for a steady FWB, possibly leading into a LTR (not keeping it off the table, cuz you never know!)
her learn about her kinks. No nudes or videos will be sent, so if you can’t respect that, then don’t message me. Looking for a real Dom/Daddy, not just the trolls looking for nudes.
Would love to meet up for coffee and see if we
have a connection, Read more… discuss what boundaries and limits. 😈
Looking for a steady FWB, possibly leading into a LTR (not keeping it off the table, cuz you never know!)
New sub looking for a Dom or Daddy to help
her learn about her kinks. No nudes or videos will be sent, so if you can’t respect that, then don’t message me. Looking for a real Dom/Daddy, not just the trolls looking for nudes.
Would love to meet up for coffee and see if we
have a connection, Read more… discuss what boundaries and limits. 😈
her learn about her kinks. No nudes or videos will be sent, so if you can’t respect that, then don’t message me. Looking for a real Dom/Daddy, not just the trolls looking for nudes.
Would love to meet up for coffee and see if we
have a connection, Read more… discuss what boundaries and limits. 😈
Bi-Curious
Me too! I’ve never even kissed a woman, but am curious. I’ve just never had the opportunity to explore this. Either with a couple or with a single woman.
Is it okay for a Dom to be angry?
Wow! Thanks for all the comments everyone! I definitely will do more research - clearly this “Dom” wasn’t a true one, as he didn’t do any aftercare for me and also didn’t have any discussion with me beforehand (set out rules/boundaries/expectations etc). I was by no means innocent in all of Read more… this, and I don’t put all the blame on him. Now off to read and research!
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Is it okay for a Dom to be angry?
So as a background - I am new to the whole Dom/sub thing, having only just started exploring it a couple months ago. I had a local Dom who I would see off and on, but we really hit it off. I got a bit annoyed with him as he would tell me stories of the other girls he was with, but when I even Read more…mentioned seeking another male for some sexual release (the Dom was not interested that night), he got mad at me. Now bear in mind, we never said we were exclusive or that we were keeping things just between us.
I actually didn’t have any intention of finding someone else that night, but I was ***ed and lashed at him as I felt he was being hypocritical in that it was okay for him to “sleep around”, but I couldn’t even mention it.
Is this normal Dom behaviour? Was I not being submissive enough? I honestly want to know if I did something wrong.
I actually didn’t have any intention of finding someone else that night, but I was ***ed and lashed at him as I felt he was being hypocritical in that it was okay for him to “sleep around”, but I couldn’t even mention it.
Is this normal Dom behaviour? Was I not being submissive enough? I honestly want to know if I did something wrong.
Likefairfield20824, ookkokokok, FangsClawsand 11 more… · 25 Replies
mythicalman I do not share. This is not common in the current scene. I would get very angry if a sub told me she was going to go out and pick up some other dick because I was not in the mood. However, I would also not be with other women. If I share my life with a sub, I intend to be the one in her life. Even Read more… without the talk of exclusivity before I ever even coffee date it’s known that I do not share. Being possessive is a Dom trait, or at least can be. Though everyone needs to be on the same page as to what that means.
LikeTwiggy, hiramcouple
· 25.10.2025 1:39:34
Twiggy Wow! Thanks for all the comments everyone! I definitely will do more research - clearly this “Dom” wasn’t a true one, as he didn’t do any aftercare for me and also didn’t have any discussion with me beforehand (set out rules/boundaries/expectations etc). I was by no means innocent in all of this, and I don’t put all the blame on him. Now off to read and research! Wow! Thanks for all the comments everyone! I definitely will do more research - clearly this “Dom” wasn’t a true one, as he didn’t do any aftercare for me and also didn’t have any discussion with me beforehand (set out rules/boundaries/expectations etc). I was by no means innocent in all of this, and I don’t put all the blame on him. Now off to read and research!
LikeShilo66, NexumSange, Nylon-Nellieand 1 more…
· 24.10.2025 23:23:51
Nylon-Nellie @Twiggy Please vet future Dom's and no rush to meet them nor have a scene with them. Person first, kink second is my rule of thumb. Listen to what people are saying on this thread, with regards to a reply that has been given. Also, there is plenty of advice given to you, on how navigate through the nasty pasties in this world. @Twiggy Please vet future Dom's and no rush to meet them nor have a scene with them. Person first, kink second is my rule of thumb. Listen to what people are saying on this thread, with regards to a reply that has been given. Also, there is plenty of advice given to you, on how navigate through the nasty pasties in this world.
LikeTwiggy
· 24.10.2025 19:14:45
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no bodily fluids (, poop, )
am learning my limits currently
am learning my limits currently