If you must refer to me, it's Vixx.

I'm a sadomasochist, not a sub, not a Mistress,
If you're under 28 please leave me alone
If you're over 55 also respect my wishes and leave me alone
This boundary used to be at the end of my profile but it made no difference so, do not expect a positive response if you get in touch and you're not 28-55 😊

I'm headstrong, confident and sarcastic. I'm important in my professional life and I have great friends and relationships, I don't need someone in my life, I want them.

I'm not looking for pen pals or online connections and don't have endless time or *** to travel vast distances and want ongoing tangible connections so I am likely to tell you that you're too far away.
I don't drive and refuse to accommodate so, unless you're within 10-15 miles of Nottingham I'm not interested.

I'm really not a visual person, I don't care if you're 7 foot 2 with a 12 pack abs and look like (popular celeb crush) I wanna know if you're intelligent enough to have a conversation about more than sex. I want to know if you think with your brain not your genitals.
What excites you in life? What happens in your head when you see a beautiful sunset? What's your favorite song?
I don't think many will get this far, but if you do...

I've been in the kink and BDSM world for 12 years, I'm neither naive or inexperienced. I'm happy to help others explore but do not assume my age means inexperience.
I'm also not a kink dispenser. I'm not here to tick boxes and fulfill fantasies. Seek a professional if that's what you're looking for.

I'm a brat, I'm a princess, i will be in charge and i take no compromise. I generally get my own way because it's just usually better that way and I'm good at making it feel like your idea.

You're going to message me anyway, so just be respectful?

My limits fall into 2 categories -
"I will never do"
"I might do, depending on who with"
Neither category is fully exhaustive and there will be things I may or may not do that I haven't listed or even thought about to list.

"I will never do"
non-negotiated ***
permanent marks
infidelity (either end, I will not keep secrets from my partner, nor will I be the person you're unfaithful to your partner with)
incest

underage (not even roleplay)
ABDL/age play

"I might do depending who with"
is far too subjective and would be something I negotiate with the individual person so I won't be listing here

Soft boundary regarding your age - if you're under 28 I'm out. No thanks. If you're over 55, I'm out. No thanks