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Please be polite if you message me. I'll talk to anyone but not if you're rude.

I'm not interested in getting involved with anyone who is not being honest with a partner.

Forty something, generally cheery submissive, looking to meet new people and experience new things.

I like gin & tonics and white tulips. I love spotty teapots and red pandas, steam trains and pickled onions. I'm an optimist with quite a dark twist. My glass is always half full and I believe in the healing power of laughter.

My kink is an ever evolving roller coaster of discovery. Mainly it excites me and I love it. Sometimes it scares me a little and I don't quite know what to do with it & who to trust with it.

I absolutely adore thick chains and ***. Restrictive bondage, hoods, hot wax and a hundred other things take me to the spacey place.

I love dressing up in beautiful corsets and pretty dresses. I have a love of the 1940s and 1950's and love the style, fashion and history of that time.

My kink is a 24/7 thing. By that I mean the dynamic of the relationship is there all the time, not just in the bedroom. It doesn't mean I want to live naked in a cage & be your servant. (Though the odd night in a cage, or a dungeon or a prison cell is no bad thing!)

I am a bit of an emotional masochist and love ***. It's taken me some time to understand and accept that I like dark and nasty things. However it only works when it's the right person doing the mean and nasty things within the safety of the relationship. I also like neck nibbling, touching and kissing as well so it's not all bad! I have a low *** threshold so if you are planning to beat me until I cry it really won't take long. That said I like the idea of *** & appreciate its place within the dynamic. I have enjoyed exploring my *** threshold am enjoying impact play & it's important to me that i continue to explore it.

My kinks are heavily linked to my sexuality and some of my kinks are quite dark. I adore sex and am quite the wanton trollop.

As an individual I'm hoping to make new friends, develop new relationships & explore & enjoy my sexuality as much as I possibly can.

I enjoy playing with couples in a D/s dynamic and am always happy to chat about possibilities. I enjoy exploring my bisexuality with ladies i have a deep connection with.

I'm ENM and would like a long term D/s dynamic that allows me to explore other relationships & meaningful connections .

Dishonesty