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Personal details

Gender Man
Age 35
Status Single
Height 174cm
Weight 98kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Blond
Hair length Short
Beard Mustache
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Body hair Hairy
Zodiac sign Scorpio
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Disability

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

  • Kinky Dates
  • LTR (relationship)

Description

I'm here looking for a romantic but kinky relationship. I have a detailed idea of what I want. I'm looking for my princess;
a sub whose kinks are orgasm control, begging, and chastity. In O/our dynamic she will wear only dresses and skirts (no male clothing). I'm very loyal, faithful, and monogamous and seek reciprocity on all these fronts. I will marry my sub before anything sexual will happen. Also looking for something romantic, not just kinky.

Limits

To have rough, hardcore, hot, sex with a partner who has consented to not orgasm through it. I want a partner who is available and who enjoys pleasing me. I want someone to cuddle with and care for.

My roles & archetype

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Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 created a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?
Apearance
I'm confessing to being insecure about my appearance when asking this. In order to date in this subculture do you have to look good? I do acknowledge that appearance can be subjective. My hope is that chemistry can be achieved through more than just one's appearance.
LikeUrNewToy, nccplWillowPrideand 7 more… · 38 Replies
KiraSecura
KiraSecura I find kink/bdsm community to be the LEAST concerned about appearance as in beauty standards. Unless it is a fetish towards a very specific body part (like big feet) or an act that requires a level of physical strenght, then it does not matter whatsoever how you are underneath it all. A sissy maid is a sissy maid no matter if they're cute twink or big hairy man outside of it. A Mistress is a mistress no matter if they look like Elvira or Hyacinth Bucket. I find kink/bdsm community to be the LEAST concerned about appearance as in beauty standards. Unless it is a fetish towards a very specific body part (like big feet) or an act that requires a level of physical strenght, then it does not matter whatsoever how you are underneath it all. A sissy maid is a sissy maid no matter if they're cute twink or big hairy man outside of it. A Mistress is a mistress no matter if they look like Elvira or Hyacinth Bucket.
LikeUrNewToy, OrganicBeta · 31.05.2025 18:13:31
UrNewToy
UrNewToy @Westernsky11 , everyone has different tastes and wants and desires... Your not a bad looking person at all, don't do that to yourself, the word is hard enough my friend.. Just remember there is beauty in almost every thing in this world just need the right perspective... I'm sure you will have Read more… your "The One" , or more depending, there is too much stress on asthetics . Looks aren't the person you are, you are the person you are not the way u think you look or others.. keep trying don't ever give up and take chances, remember the long-shots pay more overall .. TC
LikeEmily-5972 · 31.05.2025 10:24:28
smudgemymakeup
smudgemymakeup ➦smudgemymakeup quote felix1234:❝I personally wouldn't give a shit, or rather, I would find it kinda interesting and cool, but neither a turn on nor a turn off
I'm curious about body-type....I'm kinda...a little out of shape...I hide it well because I'm tall and I think (?) I have an attractive Read more… face, but I never hit on girls because I'm not in shape like I used to be, and it's not like I'm big enough to attract people who are into that, I'm just slightly pudgy...now I'm getting my life back on track I'm excited to hit the gym (for me, not for anyone else)...but like, am I correct in imagining a lot of girls wouldn't be into that? or is it all in my head? It doesn't matter too much cos it's a temporary situation, but it does really stop me hitting on girls ❞
Not really a girl, but I love a dad bod/bear type....super sexy,
Like · 16.05.2025 15:21:32
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Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 25.11.2024 5:00:32
  • Male (35)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Too Much Denial

This is helpful. Thank you.

LikeDenverBunny, sassygyal305 · Jump to discussion
Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 20.11.2024 1:42:01
  • Male (35)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Too Much Denial

For the record I want my partner to cum. It's finding a balance between chastity and orgasms that I need to figure out.

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 20.11.2024 0:42:32
  • Male (35)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Head shaving fetish

Shaving one's head is an act of sacrifice. It's sexy as hell.

LikeMistresschr · Jump to discussion
Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 20.11.2024 0:41:24
  • Male (35)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Desirable Traits of a Submissive

I find desire and willingness to serve the most sexy. Above all else a desire to submit to the arrangement the most attractive trait.

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 19.11.2024 21:30:48
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Subs - How Do You Like To Be Approached By A Dom On This App

Problem for anyone seeking a female sub is that they get a high volume of requests. How does one stand out and still start out as yourself?

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 18.11.2024 19:45:20
  • Male (35)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Too Much Denial

In case anyone is wondering, submissivesguide has an article detailing how a Dom set expectations for his sub. It was a "my way or the highway" kind of deal. Still negotiated upon and consented to. I can find the link if interested. I believe the author was Mrs Darling.

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 wrote something in the forum
  • 18.11.2024 19:40:06
  • Male (35)
  • Rushford
  • Single
Too Much Denial

Spiral66 I am confused on whether I should set some limits. Some resources say that the Dom can set such limits. Others assert that it is a pure negotiation between sub and Dom. I do prefer the latter but not sure how to inquire when messaging someone. So it's good to know what the sub expects too.

Westernsky11
icon-wio Westernsky11 created a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?
Too Much Denial
How much denial is too much? Do Subs have limits on how long they can go without an orgasm/ how few orgasms they can have? What expectation should I have as a Dom?
LikeDom-Gentle, Mistresschr, HappyFatLadyand 17 more… · 19 Replies
xxyyoverndone
xxyyoverndone If my sub is playful, they are allowed as many anal orgasms as can be managed. And for every eyebrow just raised, yes. There are. They do exist. But as for genital masturbation, strictly on my permission, and there had better have been an incredible pleading to grant such a thing. If my sub has Read more… used their safe word, then they are absolutely free to do as they wishe, until such time as she/he resubmits. When they does & we have discussed why the safeword was used, If I feel the usage was justified, all is good, and I will honor their reasonings and usage in the future as well.
If, however, I felt it was self serving and manipulative, then if we are to remain any type of dynamic at all, then, very severe punisments are up for discussion. As I have stated before, I do not tolerate deceipt or being "bratty"
Like · 25.02.2025 21:53:33
dildomechanic2024
dildomechanic2024 A chasity belt can be helpful and add a remote control vibrator lovense.*om A chasity belt can be helpful and add a remote control vibrator lovense.*om
Like · 28.11.2024 23:45:24
Westernsky11
Westernsky11 ➦Westernsky11 quote Denver***:❝In my dynamic we practice orgasm control. I don’t come, ever, without permission. This includes self play, which im also not allowed to do without permission. We discussed that aspect of our dynamic and mutually agreed on it. So yes, I gave initial consent for him Read more… to control, but now he sets the limits. This is also an important part of safe words and with draw of consent. Safe words are often used mid play, but they can be utilized here as well. Outside of play if I said my safe word it would mean that I needed a momentary step out of our power exchange and at that point I could explain the the denial had gone of too long for my capabilities and needed to stop. As always, the sub chooses to give the control to their Dominant. The Dominant has that control (within prescribed boundaries) until it is rescinded.❞
This is helpful. Thank you.
LikeDenverBunny, sassygyal305 · 25.11.2024 5:00:32
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To have rough, hardcore, hot, sex with a partner who has consented to not orgasm through it. I want a partner who is available and who enjoys pleasing me. I want someone to cuddle with and care for.
Westernsky11
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  • 03.11.2024 4:01:03
  • Male (35)
  • Rushford
  • Single
I'm here looking for a romantic but kinky relationship. I have a detailed idea of what I want. I'm looking for my princess;
a sub whose kinks are orgasm control, begging, and chastity. In O/our dynamic she will wear only dresses and skirts (no male clothing). I'm very loyal, faithful, and Read more… monogamous and seek reciprocity on all these fronts. I will marry my sub before anything sexual will happen. Also looking for something romantic, not just kinky.
Westernsky11
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