Sorry it's "Discreet Devotion", don't know what I was thinking with Devious and Devoted 🤣 🤣 🤣

If you start a dialogue with Me SirBDSM71 I'll send a quick pic of it if you'd like 👍
They're kind of like a twanger if you've ever used one, leave beautiful marks, very inconspicuous, and no one around in thr Vanilla has any idea what just happened, they just hear an "Ouchy" from your cheeky, Read more… Bratty and now very much in place PlayMate 🤣 🤣 🤣
What's a Pleasure Sadist to do when they're playing up 😆 🤣 😂

😆 I'll try and send a pic, or I think there's one on My page.
It's been a few yrs since I bought it and if I remember right it's from a company called "Devious and Devoted" I may be wrong though.
I found them on FetLife.

I've (given Spanks) in public, I also have something called an "Ouchy" bracelet.
It's a Sadist switch that can be unclipped at any point and used to give a quick whip if someone is being Bratty in public and thinks they can get away with it 😈
But O.T.K. Spanks in public are a massive turn-on for Read more… both ⛓️💜😈💜⛓️

Fully agree with 'Ma Lord Sloppymess on His words above (Wicked Name, by the way, loving it).
It does sound like a Faker and ***r, someone who's suddenly watched 50 F'ing Shades and thinks he knows what being Dominant is about.
It's not about ***, it's about knowing what your PlayMate/Partner Read more… enjoys, what you enjoy and knowing the limits of where you can both be with this connection.
I've been Dominant since I was 21, I'm now 44 and still going through My Evolution, still learning, still being Educated and still willing and able to listen to everyone especially My Partner/PlayMate at all times.
Being Dominant doesn't mean you are angry or upset, Abusive or A User, it means you know how to take Command and Control within the PlayRoom, Scenes and Scenarios, it means you can communicate outwardly without the worry about what others think, it's about Knowing what you enjoy and your Partner does and able to give that Connection both in and out of the Play situations.
Just cause I'm Dominant doesn't mean I'm an asshole, doesn't mean I expect My Partner to take shit off of Me for No reason(especially when it involves limits and kinks), it means I'm Commanding when in Play and Controlling of the Scenario and Kinks, Within both of Our Limits.
Do yourself a huge favour and think yourself lucky Spooky Boo, it sounds like you've managed to escape a Dick head lowlife.
Have fun, Be safe and Never be anything but yourself.
Don't just give your Submission for free, give it to the Man who respects you in and out of the Scenarios, and gives you the Before, During and Aftercare.
You're "Worthy and Deserving" of nothing less Little Lady.
With All Honour,
Woody,
GentDom/PleasureSadist/
DdyDom /Rigger ⛓️💜😈💜⛓️
(Please excuse the use of any Honorifics or Identity in the above message, they are used to express the conversation content and are in no way a demeaning or wanted offence towards yourself or any others spoken to or about.)

Limits are limits Spooky Boo,
The guys above have said all that needs to be said I'll just add that you shouldn't feel bad for standing up for what you like and don't like.
"NEVER" Ever feel bad for saying what you enjoy and don't.
You are here to find your Forever Dom, PlayMate and Partner.
If Read more… he couldn't accept that *** is not one of your kinks then He should either have said "I'm sorry but this won't work out" or "Okay, We can as a Dynamic work around this"
I'm sure you're still reeling cause you thought you had found the one, but just remember that if someone doesn't accept you for you and everything that Cums with that then they're not the one for you.
It sounds like a VERY insecure Boy as well Spooky Boo, and either a Newbie or User&***r, not someone you'd want to be in a Dynamic or Partnership with.
Always know you "Are Worthy and Deserving" of the full package and unless your Partner is willing to go that extra step for you they don't Deserve or They're Not Worthy of the Connection you give for them.
With All Honour,
Woody,
GentDom/PleasureSadist/
DdyDom /Rigger ⛓️💜😈💜⛓️
(Please excuse the use of any Honorifics or Identity in the above message, they are used to express the conversation content and are in no way a demeaning or wanted offence towards yourself or any others spoken to or about.)

You're welcome 🙏

Umm, I wouldn't know Kim.
Give M.A.L.L a try, Munch+Adult Local Links, if you can't find one there give Fetlife a try.
Hope you find one Sweetie.. 😉

Hey Diaperboy,
We're chatting about UK Munches in this comment, just thought you should know.
I'd suggest joining Fetlife, not just Fet, if you're looking for more Area Specific Events/Munches.
Hope this helps.
With All Honour,
Woody,
GentDom/Sadist