About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- Networking
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
- Cybersex
Description
Tell me your stories, your dreams, your desires, and lets make something beautiful out of them...
Practicing kink for 3 years. All for psychological play, sensory deprivation, spankings, praise & humiliation (You'll find I have a very skilled tongue), and rough sex (the harder the better ;-). I see kink as an intimate journey of self discovery and pleasure (as well as just really fun!), so lets make some memories, however fleeting they may be.
Other interests of mine include include Tarot, Exercise, Painting, Horror films (send me recommendations), photography, hiking, and psychology (and having a good laugh, I'm not as pretentious as I sound!).
I live by 3 key rules:
Respect
Curiosity - towards the world and all of the opportunities available.
Honesty - both with myself and with yourself.
Always down to meet interesting people and learn new things, so feel free to hit me up!
Limits
Bodily fluids, extreme age play, anything that leaves scars.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Erotic Photography
- Blindfolds
- BDSM
- Biting Fetish
- Breath Play
- Collar & Leash
- Cunnilingus (Active)
- Deep Throating (Active)
- Dirty Talk
- Domination (Active)
- Erotic Art
- Exhibitionism
- Face Slapping
- Facesitting
- Restraints
- Foreplay
- Free love
- Hair Pulling (Active)
- Rough Sex
- Kinky Sex (Active)
- Costumes (Active)
- Masochism (Active)
- Nipple Play (Passive)
- Nudism
- Orgasm Control
- Role Play
- Sadism (Active)
- Outdoor Sex
- Sex in the Water
- Shower Sex (Active)
- Sex Toys
- Spanking
- Squirting
- Striptease
- Tantric Massage (Active)
- Tantric Sex
- Vampire Role Play
Wanna know what interests me?:
- Erotic Photography (Active)
- Fear Play (Passive)
- Erotic Art (Active)
- Erotic Film
- Erotic Hypnosis
- Exhibitionism (Passive)
- FFM Threesome (Active)
- Floggers
- Gangbang (Active)
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner
- Group Sex
- Kamasutra
- Kidnap Role Play (Active)
- MMF Threesome
- Spanking Paddles (Passive)
- Polyamory (Active)
- Ring Gag
- Sensory Deprivation
- Car Sex
- Sex Parties
- Sauna Sex
- Photo Swapping
- Slave Training
- Spreader Bar (Passive)
- Suspension Bondage
- Swinger (Active)
- Tantric Sex (Active)
My places
Fetish.com gives you…
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Tell me your stories, your dreams, your desires, and lets make something beautiful out of them...
Practicing kink for 3 years. All for psychological play, sensory deprivation, spankings, praise & humiliation (You'll find I have a very skilled tongue), and rough sex (the harder the better ;-). Read more… I see kink as an intimate journey of self discovery and pleasure (as well as just really fun!), so lets make some memories, however fleeting they may be.
Other interests of mine include include Tarot, Exercise, Painting, Horror films (send me recommendations), photography, hiking, and psychology (and having a good laugh, I'm not as pretentious as I sound!).
I live by 3 key rules:
Respect
Curiosity - towards the world and all of the opportunities available.
Honesty - both with myself and with yourself.
Always down to meet interesting people and learn new things, so feel free to hit me up!
Practicing kink for 3 years. All for psychological play, sensory deprivation, spankings, praise & humiliation (You'll find I have a very skilled tongue), and rough sex (the harder the better ;-). Read more… I see kink as an intimate journey of self discovery and pleasure (as well as just really fun!), so lets make some memories, however fleeting they may be.
Other interests of mine include include Tarot, Exercise, Painting, Horror films (send me recommendations), photography, hiking, and psychology (and having a good laugh, I'm not as pretentious as I sound!).
I live by 3 key rules:
Respect
Curiosity - towards the world and all of the opportunities available.
Honesty - both with myself and with yourself.
Always down to meet interesting people and learn new things, so feel free to hit me up!
Bodily fluids, extreme age play, anything that leaves scars.
Bodily fluids, extreme age play, anal, anything that leaves scars (not one likes damaging pieces of art!).
Midnight Visitor PART #1
Intriguing... You have a gift with words!
LikeRuffone2handle ·
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Dom Drop
Yes, I made sure to explain what she'd be feeling before she left, and checked in that she had a self care kit with her at home. I think the guilt definitely is coming from seeing how she felt afterwards so that makes sense
LikeCopperKnob ·
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Dom Drop
So this is the first time I've had this feeling and would love some advice from other people... I had the most incredible time playing with someone new to the scene but am feeling heavy feelings of guilt for some reason, would love it if someone would let me know if I did anything wrong or this is Read more…all in my head... We met in a party last week and bonded over our shared interest in kink, so decided that it'd be fun to exchange social medias and plan a date of later on...
Fast forward to today, we meet up for a couple of drinks and have a great chemistry going on, talked for hours and decided to go back to my place... At mine we laid out what we were both comfortable with and discussed limits + safe words... Fast forward to the scene, which consisted of spanking, breast play, and some light bondage (blindfolds and tying with a belt), it goes well (with me consistently checking in too see if how she was doing and if she remembered the safeword) and she goes into subspace for a short while... After recovering I asked how she felt and she said she felt 'fuzzy' and tired, but wanted to try it from the other side, and since she seemed recovered and lively again I agreed, thinking it'd be good for her to experience both sides of the coin... It went OK and she seemed to enjoy herself and we cuddled and watched a movie together after I explained a bit about subspace and what she'd likely feel like the next day... When I took her home she suddenly become very quiet and withdrawn, but we texted afterwards and she said that she was just feeling a bit needy and surprised that she was able to be dominant...
I don't know why I feel a big amount of guilt, and was hoping that people could share their thoughts as to wether I pushed her a bit by allowing her to try domming even though she had not mentally prepared for it, or wether I did anything wrong in the scene... Much love x
Fast forward to today, we meet up for a couple of drinks and have a great chemistry going on, talked for hours and decided to go back to my place... At mine we laid out what we were both comfortable with and discussed limits + safe words... Fast forward to the scene, which consisted of spanking, breast play, and some light bondage (blindfolds and tying with a belt), it goes well (with me consistently checking in too see if how she was doing and if she remembered the safeword) and she goes into subspace for a short while... After recovering I asked how she felt and she said she felt 'fuzzy' and tired, but wanted to try it from the other side, and since she seemed recovered and lively again I agreed, thinking it'd be good for her to experience both sides of the coin... It went OK and she seemed to enjoy herself and we cuddled and watched a movie together after I explained a bit about subspace and what she'd likely feel like the next day... When I took her home she suddenly become very quiet and withdrawn, but we texted afterwards and she said that she was just feeling a bit needy and surprised that she was able to be dominant...
I don't know why I feel a big amount of guilt, and was hoping that people could share their thoughts as to wether I pushed her a bit by allowing her to try domming even though she had not mentally prepared for it, or wether I did anything wrong in the scene... Much love x
Thepostman This thread has opened my eyes, I have definitely had Dom drop but didn't know what it was so thanks guys This thread has opened my eyes, I have definitely had Dom drop but didn't know what it was so thanks guys
Likexxnoxx123, Thebian
· 02.03.2022 22:42:54
Thebian You have Dom drop my friend.
Well done for putting your subs space and after care first but next you may need to work out how to combine yours with hers.
Dom drop is also known by the slang term "the guilts". We all get it, it is your brain reconciling the actions you take in high Dom space from Read more… the perspective of a brain that has come back to earth.
Rerun the scene, it sounds like you took all the right steps, moreover it sounds like you both enjoyed it.
You have nothing to feel guilty about, it is a perfectly normal after effect and a very good sign as well. The best person to help with this is your sub just as you help her come down from her space.
Well done for putting your subs space and after care first but next you may need to work out how to combine yours with hers.
Dom drop is also known by the slang term "the guilts". We all get it, it is your brain reconciling the actions you take in high Dom space from Read more… the perspective of a brain that has come back to earth.
Rerun the scene, it sounds like you took all the right steps, moreover it sounds like you both enjoyed it.
You have nothing to feel guilty about, it is a perfectly normal after effect and a very good sign as well. The best person to help with this is your sub just as you help her come down from her space.
Likexxnoxx123
· 21.02.2022 0:45:20
CopperKnob ➦CopperKnob quote xxnoxx123:❝Yes, I made sure to explain what she'd be feeling before she left, and checked in that she had a self care kit with her at home. I think the guilt definitely is coming from seeing how she felt afterwards so that makes sense❞
Send her this?
• drink water, even if you Read more… don’t want to.
• eat, even if you don’t want to.
• tell people you’re dropping, even if you don’t know what else to say.
• start to utilize your aftercare resources, even if you have to completely force it and it doesn’t feel natural.
• keep your phone on and respond to those checking on you.
• let your loved ones know of your mental and physical state frequently, particularly when you’re asleep vs awake.
• listen to your loved ones when they tell you to do something that they think or know will help you.
• ask others for the words of affirmation you know you need to hear.
Send her this?
• drink water, even if you Read more… don’t want to.
• eat, even if you don’t want to.
• tell people you’re dropping, even if you don’t know what else to say.
• start to utilize your aftercare resources, even if you have to completely force it and it doesn’t feel natural.
• keep your phone on and respond to those checking on you.
• let your loved ones know of your mental and physical state frequently, particularly when you’re asleep vs awake.
• listen to your loved ones when they tell you to do something that they think or know will help you.
• ask others for the words of affirmation you know you need to hear.
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· 20.02.2022 15:28:01
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