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Gender Man
Age 37
Status Single
Height 173cm
Weight 91kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Bald
Beard Full beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair Hairy
Zodiac sign Leo
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

  • Friends
  • Kinky Dates
  • LTR (relationship)
  • NSA (no strings...)

Description

FetLife as Master-Rabbit.
Kik is ConditionalBehaviour.

Tom Allen +James Spader = ?
Gothic soul, emo heart, autist brain, perverse sensibilities.
Live in Bicester, work in Oxford. Hunting someone local for long-term. I am not wanting endless pictures, if anything, I will likely want a couple of precise SFW ones to show you're legitimate. Reach out if local (45 minute trip or so) and serious. A spoken conversation within a day or two, a meet within a week or two, are not high asks. If you're not comfortable having a spoken conversation relatively quickly, you're not going to be capable of what is required to realise your desires.
Intrinsically kinky in many ways, sex is not a high requirement for me. I'll likely enjoy it, especially if we share some of the more cerebral initialisms, but the grand desire is for a primary romantic partner over a fuck doll. Not that you can't be both.
Ideally you've dark deviances and unusual arousals we can bring to life, and that is the key as I am not looking to write fantasies for you; I am looking to bring them into reality.
My own engagement tends not to come from specific fetishes, more the sublimation of your own and your self under my direction; I enjoy innocence tainted and erotic irony. I love to make people choose debasement for their own satisfaction or as a humbling path to release, whether orgasmic or more generically physical.
Whilst I may not share your kinks, I find it highly unlikely you'll present anything new or shocking to me. Past partners have enjoyed things associated with graveyards, pounds, asylums and some of the more self-abusive or reductive engagements. I've managed to bring these to realisation in safe and largely sane ways, each with a twist to make them enjoyable to us both.
Compliance earns affection and pleasure. Disobedience rewards time for reflection and a more excruciating form of pleasing.
That said ... Megustalations.
Head shaved, mind depraved, enamoured of theatre and song. And VanLife, FetLife, and UrbEx. Oh my!
Catch-22 is my humour. I'm into surrealism in all things. Also very much enamoured of well choreographed routines and linguistical limberness.
I want a love that seeks my own, a soul that encompasses me, that feeds off of my attention and affection. Someone to dance with in the rain, in the woods, in supermarkets and in silence.
Time spent hiking, (also scooting - I'm spending far too much with Voi), hunting for abandoned and spooky places is time well spent. Indoor hobbies include perfumery, cooking, watching horror / gore / exploitation films and miscellaneous musicals and designing clothes and contraptions for fun.
I'm looking for someone to make food shopping fun, stroke all the fluffs and floofs with, who'll send cute pictures to me, and that I can treat, tease and traumatise in all of the special ways we'll both love. The ideal is a romantic relationship built on fetishistic foundations. Especially through more subtly expressed intimacy, such as a hand slipping into mine, or a kiss gifted unexpectedly as I turn to see you.
Talk to me about philosophy, psychology, stories and how these intertwine, in myth, in religion, in sexual fantasy and relaxation. Taboos and darker interests are eagerly explored. As said, I've quite a history of bringing such to life in relatively sane ways, and helping process associated traumas, and always enjoy the chance to either find something new to engage with, or someone new to help come to terms with themselves.
Come be the focus of my loving attention and suffer the barbs of my endless puns. Charm me with your vivacity so I yearn to make you cry yourself to climax. Seduce me with your mind so I wish to pet, pretty, and punish you. Keep me with your innocence, no matter how I taint it.
Talk to me. Let me into your head. I'll make you better. I'll make you mine.

Limits

Infantile DDlg. Enduring physical harm.

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YourDaddyDarkest
icon-wio YourDaddyDarkest wrote something in the forum
  • 06.11.2025 21:36:46
  • Male (37)
  • Bicester
  • Single
Female Chastity

I've gone a similar route to this before. Chained for a more aesthetic look and padlocked to a clit-ring.
If you're only looking to prevent penetration, you have a lot of feasible options. If you want to negate stimulation as a whole, being more inventive is required.

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YourDaddyDarkest
icon-wio YourDaddyDarkest wrote something in the forum
  • 06.11.2025 9:24:39
  • Male (37)
  • Bicester
  • Single
Female Chastity

How much access are you looking to restrict? I've seen nothing retailing that fits what I'd require, but a few home made designs, and have dabbled with my own conceptually.

YourDaddyDarkest
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  • 14.10.2025 13:23:39
  • Male (37)
  • Bicester
  • Single
Infantile DDlg. Enduring physical harm.
YourDaddyDarkest
icon-wio YourDaddyDarkest has updated their profile description
  • 14.10.2025 13:20:11
  • Male (37)
  • Bicester
  • Single
FetLife as Master-Rabbit.
Kik is ConditionalBehaviour.

Tom Allen +James Spader = ?
Gothic soul, emo heart, autist brain, perverse sensibilities.
Live in Bicester, work in Oxford. Hunting someone local for long-term. I am not wanting endless pictures, if anything, I will likely want a couple of Read more… precise SFW ones to show you're legitimate. Reach out if local (45 minute trip or so) and serious. A spoken conversation within a day or two, a meet within a week or two, are not high asks. If you're not comfortable having a spoken conversation relatively quickly, you're not going to be capable of what is required to realise your desires.
Intrinsically kinky in many ways, sex is not a high requirement for me. I'll likely enjoy it, especially if we share some of the more cerebral initialisms, but the grand desire is for a primary romantic partner over a fuck doll. Not that you can't be both.
Ideally you've dark deviances and unusual arousals we can bring to life, and that is the key as I am not looking to write fantasies for you; I am looking to bring them into reality.
My own engagement tends not to come from specific fetishes, more the sublimation of your own and your self under my direction; I enjoy innocence tainted and erotic irony. I love to make people choose debasement for their own satisfaction or as a humbling path to release, whether orgasmic or more generically physical.
Whilst I may not share your kinks, I find it highly unlikely you'll present anything new or shocking to me. Past partners have enjoyed things associated with graveyards, pounds, asylums and some of the more self-abusive or reductive engagements. I've managed to bring these to realisation in safe and largely sane ways, each with a twist to make them enjoyable to us both.
Compliance earns affection and pleasure. Disobedience rewards time for reflection and a more excruciating form of pleasing.
That said ... Megustalations.
Head shaved, mind depraved, enamoured of theatre and song. And VanLife, FetLife, and UrbEx. Oh my!
Catch-22 is my humour. I'm into surrealism in all things. Also very much enamoured of well choreographed routines and linguistical limberness.
I want a love that seeks my own, a soul that encompasses me, that feeds off of my attention and affection. Someone to dance with in the rain, in the woods, in supermarkets and in silence.
Time spent hiking, (also scooting - I'm spending far too much with Voi), hunting for abandoned and spooky places is time well spent. Indoor hobbies include perfumery, cooking, watching horror / gore / exploitation films and miscellaneous musicals and designing clothes and contraptions for fun.
I'm looking for someone to make food shopping fun, stroke all the fluffs and floofs with, who'll send cute pictures to me, and that I can treat, tease and traumatise in all of the special ways we'll both love. The ideal is a romantic relationship built on fetishistic foundations. Especially through more subtly expressed intimacy, such as a hand slipping into mine, or a kiss gifted unexpectedly as I turn to see you.
Talk to me about philosophy, psychology, stories and how these intertwine, in myth, in religion, in sexual fantasy and relaxation. Taboos and darker interests are eagerly explored. As said, I've quite a history of bringing such to life in relatively sane ways, and helping process associated traumas, and always enjoy the chance to either find something new to engage with, or someone new to help come to terms with themselves.
Come be the focus of my loving attention and suffer the barbs of my endless puns. Charm me with your vivacity so I yearn to make you cry yourself to climax. Seduce me with your mind so I wish to pet, pretty, and punish you. Keep me with your innocence, no matter how I taint it.
Talk to me. Let me into your head. I'll make you better. I'll make you mine.
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  • 19.05.2024 17:38:16
  • Male (37)
  • Bicester
  • Single
FetLife as Master-Rabbit.
Kik is ConditionalBehaviour.

I'm looking for real life interactions leading to a relationship, ideally romantic but platonic and sexual also works.

Message me if you:

Get wet being on display and told what to wear
Have a praise kink
Enjoy being given tasks and Read more… restrictions
Have your toes curl at the thought of being teased and edged
Love days out and weekends away visiting petting zoos and shopping centres, where you know you'll be the one being petted and treated as merchandise
Your cunt twitched on reading this list, imagining yourself as mine

I'm wanting a woman who if not knowing what they want are willing to explore to establish that. Key words for those seeking a relationship are meeples, D&D, UrbEx, VanLife.

I currently spend most of my time around Bicester, occasionally Wheatley.

My sexual interests are mainly cerebral: TPE, powerplay, exhibitionism, objectification, dollification, regression and so on. Expect tasks and pastimes typically suited for younger minds as part of the or psychological play I enjoy. Whilst a lot of what I say touches DDlg, that isn't a realm I particularly identify with. For those of you who do indulge, I'd prefer a middle more than a little as I will want to dress you up and develop your aesthetic, your wardrobe, your style, however you wish to term it, into something implicitly sexual, with an aim to develop a giggly girly toy to treat, traumatise, and love whole-heartedly. To travel the country with. To shape and teach and sculpt into the culmination of our ideals.

Predicament bondage and many aspects of petplay especially appeal, whether through physical bonds or more psychological strictures. Your sharing of your taboos, or even things you loathe or deride, and seeing you be pushed to the point of it being how you seek your release, seeing you struggle to admit what you want to be and then begging to become such will likely be something of a low-key goal. Helping you to embrace your darker play and thoughts, sexually and emotionally, will definitely be something I pursue. If you have trauma I will love to help you work through it, albeit likely using it to grow you into the girl I see you should be. I do always strive to have you fully-functioning and healthy however. Whilst I may want to break you, that is only so we can build you back up together.

More physically, I have a love of bare-handed punishment, breast play and watching pretty young things struggle and grow frustrated as they edge. Corporal punishment, especially spanking is a favourite, preferably through just my hand but I have a modest collection of floggers, whips, paddles and so on. The squirming, rapid shuffling of feet, the sobbing and mewling, the swaying and curvature of the ass and the way it reddens and makes the pussy seem to pout as it ks out ... I find it most arousing - and this is without getting into aspects of dress; your flailing legs in stockings or high socks kicking from beneath a short skirt, glowing cheeks framed by suspender straps and lace stocking tops would be highly engaging. Seeing you in leotards or similar swimwear will likely be something that would demand both my attention and my creative sadism.

Following this, I enjoy particular clothing on those I play with. This is different for each person and depends on their own looks but typically a trashy look will be key. High heels, stockings, basques and corsets, tutus, French knickers and thongs rising above waistbands - generally suggestive clothing. Outfits inducing thought and curiosity appeal here, as with many of my interests. Having you dress to a theme in keeping with other aspects of your objectification and teasing, and entwine them into your life in such a way as to free up your inhibitions and elevate your enjoyment of yourself and your arousals is paramount.

Defined rules and requirements should appeal - holding my hand whilst we're out, eating and exercising properly, being dressed in/appropriately as dictated. Compliance earns affection and pleasure, disobedience rewards time for reflection and a more ful form of pleasing.

In short I love to corrupt and changes, to make people choose submission and *** for selfish reasons. Your being made to put on a show to climax as an example, or perhaps a vibrator just far enough out of reach you can only tease yourself leading to your begging to be spanked or face-fucked so you're pushed back that extra inch.

On the more vanilla side, I'm a flat affect, and yearn for someone to love. Inherently cynical yet optimistic, romance is something I crave to express and share. Come be the focus of my loving attention and suffer the barbs of my endless puns. I'm an incongruent thinker and writer, and enjoy the prospect of nights spent in book club / salon style discussions. As well as time spent hiking, hunting for abandoned and spooky places, and watching horror / gore / exploitation films and miscellaneous musicals.

Charm me with your vivacity so I yearn to make you cry yourself to climax. Seduce me with your mind so I wish to pet, pretty, and punish you. Keep me with your innocence, no matter how I taint it.

Talk to me. Let me into your head. I'll make you better. I'll make you mine.
YourDaddyDarkest
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  • 19.05.2024 17:33:55
  • Male (37)
  • Bicester
  • Single
Infantile DDlg, *** / rimming. Lasting physical harm.
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  • 19.05.2024 17:28:32
  • Male (37)
  • Bicester
  • Single

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