Vanilla:

I consider myself a very calm person with a strong intellectual side.

I'm extremely curiosity-driven and will always jump on every opportunity to start a deep conversation about nearly every academic topic (even if I don't know anything about it). I'd love to get in contact with people who are as much of a nerd as I am in this regard.

I also tend to vibe pretty well with people who just consider themselves laid-back. I'm quite open to just hanging out and watching a movie or something.

If you're into MBTI, I'm a pretty typical INTP.

The main kink:

I have a huge facesitting fetish. I'd like to find a sadistic girl who makes herself comfortable while she enjoys smothering me. I want to worship your body while you keep pushing my limits further through breath play.

The other kinks:

Sorry for being so overly direct, but the above kink is definitely the gateway-kink that drew me to the scene. As I said, I'm very curious and would like to know more about the rest of the BDSM world. If you have a broader taste of kinks, I'd love to experiment.

I relate most to the label of "worshipper". Basically, I want to spoil you and make you comfortable while you act like a sadistic diva. I resonate most with labels like "Goddess", "Queen", or "Pillow Princess", or things to that effect. I can also picture myself switching and experimenting with a bratty type of sub, I'm not a 'full' submissive in that sense. I don't think a typical Mistress/slave dynamic or a 'hard' FLR appeals to me; I do have a strong sense of agency that I don't want to give up.

Oh, and I've been told I give amazing massages; I'm quite generous with them too (yes, this is me blatantly trying to bribe you; stop judging me! It worked that one time!).

So what do I want?

I suppose my ideal outcome for this adventure would be a long-term monogamous relationship with a nerdy, sadistic diva. I'm a pretty flexible person though, so I don't plan on waiting around for a unicorn to show up. If you just feel like experimenting, or even if you just feel like having a good conversation, we should definitely get in touch.

Misc

I'm 1.90m tall. I have a Master's degree. I've been on six explicitly kinky dates so far. My hobbies are gaming, reading, watching copious amounts of YouTube, and researching random subjects that happen to pique my curiosity. I'm currently working out three times a week and I'm starting to take fitness quite seriously. My favorite food items are capers. I speak fluent cat.

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When it comes to other kinks, I have a lot left to explore, and I'm not yet sure where my limits are.

What I DO know:

• I'm not into the "filth" elements of facesitting, I'd prefer to keep things nice and clean.

• I'd only consider anything that even smells like flndom in a highly committed, monogamous relationship.

• I don't like the idea of gender-role reversal (thinking of pegging, sissification, that sort of thing).