I love the power and domination, humiliation and submission that are inherent in the act of a man putting a woman over his knee and spanking her bare bottom. And though in real life I'm not naturally dominant, in role play the woman I'm spanking will be in no doubt who's in charge. I'll demand her submission to me and I'll put her over my knee and smack her bare bottom, like she's a naughty young woman.

I’m a good and decent man and I’m very stable and sane, but I must also say that I find it very erotic if the woman whom I'm spanking starts crying while I'm spanking her, although this must be consensual of course. Equally erotic is the humiliation element. My submissive is told to take her knickers off, or has them taken down by me, as I put her over my knee and spank her bottom like she's a naughty young woman.

I'm fit and in good nick, I think, with all my own hair (very grey now) and teeth! I'm led to believe that I'm attractive and distinguished looking.