BDSM Dating in La Línea de la Concepción

Hey so the last few years I’ve considered my self ace even after coming out as trans but now I want to start again talking to people even just online as I’ve not been on the scene since my last “relationship” as she was really toxic and made feel bad for liking the stuff I like after she said she did too and would “ indulge” me but would make me uncomfortable/ unsafe So I would like to meet someone I could try again with or talk to with out judgement