Deleted Member Posted November 27, 2024 I'm into poly relationships. But I find it hard to find a submissive couple or a submissive leaning switch couple. Because I'm dominate leaning. There's a lot of jealousy involved with that dynamic that I've experienced. I really don't like hierarchical relationships because of that. So I'm looking for a single submissive now.
Deleted Member Posted November 30, 2024 We are interested in adding a woman to our relationship if we ALL are feeling connected. Problem is that the women tend to be into my hubby, and because I'm easy to manipulate, I start to get pushed out or play mind games with and then we have to end things and move on. It would be nice to find a woman who was trustworthy, honest, really wanted to date a couple, and could be my friend and more down the road. Are there not women like that anymore?
Deleted Member Posted December 1, 2024 Sadly still looking for that one, were poly bit also ENM it's horrible how many ppl are out there just to mess with you or manipulate you, is there no honesty left in the world?
Ceejayuk Posted December 7, 2024 (edited) For me it depends. If I am having Friend With Benefits relationship, I do not have an issues with them or me playing with others, for instance Ive had a couple of play partners who were already in relationships it really never bothered me. However If I am with someone who is single from the start and having a romantic relationship with them, not just play, then I do not want to share them, at the same time, I don't feel like I want to play with others either. Though that simply may have been down to those particular relationships/partners. Maybe it comes from being afraid of them cheating and leaving, where as with my play partners that I have had in the past who were with others, I already knew they were in another realtionship, had accepted it from the start and kind of knew they would not be with me long term, even though a couple of those relationships actually did end up with feelings involved and lasting for a long time. Oddly one of my longest relationships was with someone who was with someone else already, we are still good friends. Edited December 7, 2024 by Ceejayuk
Jo**** Posted December 17, 2024 I personally don't mind poly relationships they are a lot better in some ways. I'm fine with my partner having other males involved or females involved but I keep the stance that I have to be the head or primary in the relationship. It's also a great way to fulfill all my kinks because of my partner is not a slave, pet or masochist I have options for each kink however if you are in a poly relationship all partners deserve equal attention unless previously discussed and decided otherwise. I'm looking for any long term relationship including poly if I can find it there are just too many kinksters wanting one night stands or hookups and I'm just not ok with that my frivolous days are passed it's time for something serious.
Zo**** Posted January 9 I don't mind being in a poly relationship. It actually makes managing kinks and other things a lot easier in some cases. The only issue is keeping up the communication so nobody feels left out or any feelings of jealousy get out of control.
Deleted Member Posted January 9 Poly works for some. Mono works for some. I'm more of a mono-poly person. I want my own male harem. But I also don't share what is mine.
Deleted Member Posted January 9 On 9/15/2024 at 10:42 AM, MasterPops said: Poly is not a relationship. It's not wrong by any means if everyone agrees on the conditions of the situation. I don't have stats to say it's never successful, but in my experience, that type of situation always ends in someone getting hurt or overall hell fire. Poly is a relationship. Like all relationships they take work. Without trust, set boundaries, and open communication then it will be hell. Everyone has to want to be in a poly relationship for it to work.
ba**** Posted January 10 I think in poly relation you still need to maintain the trust and ensure you don't cheat or lie just like in any other relationship
co**** Posted January 10 Yesterday at 06:25 AM, TheMacabreBrat said: Poly works for some. Mono works for some. I'm more of a mono-poly person. I want my own male harem. But I also don't share what is mine. I can relate to this 🙌🙏
Wi**** Posted January 11 Yes. I would like/ I want to be in a poly relationship. There wouldn't be any reason to lie.
dr**** Posted January 12 Love poly! My little and I already discussed having other partners to bring in!
pg**** Posted February 18 I think after 2 failed marriages where they both cheated, I’ve decided no more marrying just relationship and if they want to be in another relationship then ok they’ll do it if they want anyway why not accept it as long as they’re still with me too?
Th**** Posted February 23 Polyamory exists regardless if someone "believes in" it or not. It's not for everyone and that's ok. It does seem that a lot of people have misunderstandings of what polyamory actually is though. Polyamory doesn't inherently mean that my partner will also be the partner of any other partners i have. It simply means multiple relationships simultaneously. Occasionally it can also mean a group of people all in a relationship together but that's not the most common form.
Deleted Member Posted May 8 As a monogamous submissive in a relationship with a Dom who is non monogamous, it has its ups and downs. For the most part I am ok. My biggest *** is to be replaced! But I still would never change anything. It makes Him happy and it actually turns me on knowing that. It definitely is not for the weak though!
Da**** Posted May 8 My 24/7 Dom was in a poly relationship for while before we got together, and I'm not sure how to adjust to that? We've been monogamous, but I know he's missing that part of his life. How do I become more "okay" (for lack of a better work) with having a poly relationship when I've never been in one and have an intense *** of abandonment? I want to be able to get past this for him 😢
da**** Posted May 8 My fianceand i have been poly for going on 8 years, I've had the pleasure over the last few days watching her date for the first time in years. I had a stroke, and she became a caregiver and nurse at home. Im so happy that she decided ro step out of her comfort zone. And she has found a possible sub as she recently recognized her desire to be more dominant, so I suggested she be a domme. She was all about it.
Deleted Member Posted May 8 I've been poly for a few years now. I would like to participate in kitchen poly. Having polyamorous friends.
Deleted Member Posted May 8 6 hours ago, DaddysBabygirl_23 said: My 24/7 Dom was in a poly relationship for while before we got together, and I'm not sure how to adjust to that? We've been monogamous, but I know he's missing that part of his life. How do I become more "okay" (for lack of a better work) with having a poly relationship when I've never been in one and have an intense *** of abandonment? I want to be able to get past this for him 😢 Therapy is mostly important. B/c you have to understand your attachment styles. Due to living in a mostly monogamous society, you're bound to be jealous. That's just how things are. But you can work on it. By maintaining boundaries & having open conversations between yourself & your partner (s).
Ba**** Posted May 9 I absolutely believe in poly relationships. We are capable of so much love for so many people why wouldn't that be true romantically. It's only limited by time and how it's spent.
re**** Posted May 9 I've not had a relationship close to that but I did have strong feelings for a M freind and his girlfriend a few times I thought we might do more than flirt
wi**** Posted May 22 So if I like for girls to sleep with lots of other guys this is where I'm suppose to be right cause I'm into that alot
wi**** Posted May 28 I've never actually been in a poly relationship tho I feel like I'm n one my thing is it's ok for her to do whatever she wants but if I even tried to do something she would flip out and kick me out and sad part is I would be happy if I was in a poly relationship she don't cheat cause she has to she does it cause she wants to
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