Switch?

[Ry****]

Hi, I'm a switch. 👋

When I think of what's satisfying and domming, here's what comes to mind:

•I am a giver and tend to power bottom. What I mean by this is my partner typically feels he's in control, but I really am.
•I very much enjoy fully taking control, edging my partner, and taking them where they need to go. Pleasure Dom, very sensual but firm.
•Honor is very important to me. I can expand on this if requested.
•Watching my partner react to me is incredibly exciting.

Primal play is my favorite kink. I love power play with other switches and doms. I'm not much into subs or selfish partners because I feel my needs aren't met... I'm also a brat. Andddd, I'm picky...

When I think of what's satisfying about subbing, here's what comes to mind:

• Letting go, truly, which is very difficult for me. This is absolutely my #1. Probably because of ptsd, it's a blessing to free my mind and get outta my thoughts and into purely in the moment.
• mutual pleasure, which ties into
• safety, trust, respect, worship
• I'm very picky. It's easy for me to pretend to let a man Dom me, but to actually give in and allow him to dominate me, to choose him and allow him full access to me in every way, is incredibly intimate and erotic.
* I'm okay with pushing boundaries w the right people in the right ways.

[co****]

Same

[of****]

In my opinion as a Switch🌹… Being a switch has everything to do with how well you can adapt to change.

[St****]

Same

[Deleted Member]

Just in your nature! I prefer to dominate, but find women so beautiful, I can take too! All aspects of the spectrum

[ro****]

Being a switch is literally the best, able to enjoy both sides and you get to learn what both sides really want and desire which just makes it even better for everyone involved

[Sc****]

As a switch, I want to experience the same value of what I have administered.

[Oh****]

I love it! Sometimes I just want to remind him of the power I can have over him. Lol it's great to change it up.

[Deleted Member]

Coming to this late, but for me, personally, my pleasure is gained through making my partner feel pleasure. I refer to myself as a service switch, because I can be whichever they need me to be to feel good.

[bi****]

I think there's a lot for doms to learn from subbing so yeah there is a lot of value in seeing the other's experience.

[Deleted Member]

I'm good with switch it allows me to give the power away and orgasm and feel a different perspective

[J4****]

Seawolf, I am very much into your type and have found much pleasure from a “service switch” . To all the Service Switch out there, you’re perfect

[ar****]

Well u found a better crowd than I have

[Deleted Member]

I'm a very dominant male. I am sexually sadistic, and I love to degrade my partner. However, I love being dominated and being degraded. I have considered the idea of having a partner where we could switch but but all of my experience on the lifestyle has been as sub. there has been no switch. My first dynamic was for two years, i was her sub, my present dynamic, has been a little over 7 years, and I'm her sub. And with no reciprocation.

[Deleted Member]

Switching is the most fun! It gives you or your partner the most variety. There is nothing more rewarding than then seing your partner try something new and be turned on from it. It's the best of both worlds

[qu****]

It’s fun

[Dr****]

Switch lifestyle is so hot you get dominated and used their way then you can dominate and use them the way you want

[Re****]

It was my first and only experience, it sizzles to this day. Thing is for me, the lifestyle extremes I can't take seriously, it's for the fun, go there spirit, fun of it all , serious hard nasty fun.
In a sense it's like contact sports . When you take a hard hit and get back up, shake it off, go again. Then you give one. Yeah! 👍👍

[Re****]

Another thing , it's like deeply believing in reciprocity. Sharing both sides. It also keeps both aware of the duty from both sides.

[Deleted Member]

Just my own experience... I was easily pushed into the dom life because of my job/lifestyle but on the other hand having to be in charge all the time left me with the desire to give up control. The problem for me was that I am a dominant personality so I can't just LET someone else be in charge... it has to be proven

[Ch****]

For me , I became a switch due to my views on life. Where I look at the needs of others more than my own. Yet seeing pure bliss for folks during aftercare makes me melt. Tho, I do try to make some ideas during negations and see what we can both do realistically for each other. Either way it also helped me see others perspectives a bit easier.

[ed****]

It broadens the experience

[ve****]

To me this is the way to go. Variety is the spice of life- why limit yourself to one thing only? So many sexual scenarios… so little time 🤷‍♂️😕

[ve****]

This entirely depends on my partner. If she gets pleasure from subbing then I will Dom and vice versa. It’s more about us being into each other than anything else…