Abandoned by a Dom.

[Kezzy26]

Thank you everyone for your comments and advice x

[Vi****]

The same thing happened to me I've had a couple doms use me they get sucked up in the gym or work and they milk photos from me then they ghost me some men seriously 😅🤧

[Deleted Member]

Sounds like a shitty Dom. I’m sorry you went through that. So many men don’t know how to be dominant AND good.

[De****]

First off, I’m so sorry this happened to you. That is repulsive behavior on his part, and he is unworthy of you. Focus on aftercare. Do things that make you feel good like eating chocolate, a warm bath, cuddles, a good movie. This will at least help with the initial drop. The rest will take time. Rely on loved ones and yourself. You will make it through. Keeping you in my thoughts. ❤️

[Deleted Member]

@DenverKitten - I wish I could ‘love’ your comment multiple times. Spot on.

[Hu****]

I'll tell you how you deal with that abandonment issues you move on to a better man that will be a Dom 4 u. I'm hung almost 10". And I absolutely love the whole Dom Sub lifestyle. It is such a turn on. And the more submissive u become, the more turned on u will be, which makes a true Dom get more turned on ,so he keeps wanting more and more of u. Any man that just runs is a coward and not a true Dom himself. Because if you was he'd have been dominated enough to break things off not just walk away and ghost. Just remember that. I love the lifestyle if you would like to give it a shot talking hit me up

[UK****]

What happened in the meet just prior to him leaving?  It may be you'll never know what's in his mind but may give some clues that may help you understand.

[SC****]

How can you not know what the reason was? No way you can have absolutely no idea. Even if it was a dumb reason

[Deleted Member]

Find a new dom hunny 😂don’t focus on that one. That’s a lesson to not go so fast! Always a bad idea. Who knows why but it definitely wasn’t youre fault. Don’t try and think about why or what happened . He’s weird and it’s not youre problem . Take some time to process those feelings. Remember that you do kink for you. It’s ok that it didn’t work out

[GeneGrey]

I would just move on. There’s no point in chasing after someone that no longer cares. 

[BlueEyesMale]

If he done that after 2nd meeting be thankful it wasn't way into the relationship. You dodged a bullet there

[mo****]

Sending positive thoughts xx

[bl****]

I’m starting to think I can’t do this anymore. I keep being lied to and it’s making it so that I cannot possibly enter into anything with anyone even in a virtual play space because I believe what’s presented to me and I fully invest myself honestly and all I seem to get back are liars. I am so tired of being heartbroken. Please just be honest. If you’re not single don’t present yourself as single.

[Female_diogenes]

I'm the host of a DID system (multiple personalities) and when that happens to me it's often because the person met my alters and they don't like them, and don't know how to tell me about them. Which is common for people to not know how to explain them or want to. For example one friend said he thought people didn't want to tell me about them because of their fields of interest in science. It involves stuff that's boring to a lot of people, for example hard math. Which is also stuff I don't have an interest in. Since he's good at that stuff he understands better why people don't want to talk about them, because it's rare people understand them who don't do those things. But for a lot of people it's not as 'extreme' as they are a DID system and don't know, yet. Often it's stuff like the person just doesn't know how to or want to talk about what they didn't like about you. I actually googled stuff about ghosting and found an article saying ghosters reported that as their top reason for ghosting. Wanting to avoid conflict. So basically being too shy to tell you why they rejected you. But sometimes maybe it's better not to know. For example I asked a guy why he lost interest in me before, I was into him, and it ended in a fight where he admitted he thought it was "disgusting" that I cleaned up after myself. I was like what? To that but he said I didn't appear Dom enough to him because I did my own cleaning and he thought I "should know" that I could "get men slaves to do that for me." I'm a switch so fuck it

Edited January 29, 2025 by Female_diogenes

[Wa****]

I've gone through this although we were in a 3 year relationship he purposed I. said yes that night him n his friends want our to celebrate when I woke up him and all his stuff was gone changed his number blocked me as if the last 3 years never existed its narcissism he got what he wanted it was like a challenge for him and he won so on to the next